Yeah I understand where you are getting at there but for me, I have to be friends with the guy for awhile before giving him a chance. That means seeing who he really is before giving him a chance. But what am I say I never even had a boyfriend before but thats how I take it.
I have more trust issues now with a past ex guy friend. He was nice at first then he showed the really him when I had lived with him for almost a year, last year. He was my roomie with two other girls.
But right now I have this rather confident nice guy who likes me, and I don't want to give him any signs that I like him more than a friend because who knows he might turn around on me too. But I have a big feeling he won't for some reason, maybe because he really does have learning disabilities just like me and always ask what I would like to do instead of making plans ahead. Who knows though.
Plus like I said before I find shy guys rather cute. That bashful smile always gets me; I can't help but feel tingly inside. :) Although I took that approach before but I ended up getting somewhat hurt. I'll never tell the guy though, he really was nice and you are right on the social skills part. There was something there about him that I couldn't figure out. Maybe he was love-shy or had social anxiety. Who knows.
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Yeah I understand where you are getting at there but for me, I have to be friends with the guy for awhile before giving him a chance. That means seeing who he really is before giving him a chance. But what am I say I never even had a boyfriend before but thats how I take it.
I have more trust issues now with a past ex guy friend. He was nice at first then he showed the really him when I had lived with him for almost a year, last year. He was my roomie with two other girls.
But right now I have this rather confident nice guy who likes me, and I don't want to give him any signs that I like him more than a friend because who knows he might turn around on me too. But I have a big feeling he won't for some reason, maybe because he really does have learning disabilities just like me and always ask what I would like to do instead of making plans ahead. Who knows though.
Plus like I said before I find shy guys rather cute. That bashful smile always gets me; I can't help but feel tingly inside. :) Although I took that approach before but I ended up getting somewhat hurt. I'll never tell the guy though, he really was nice and you are right on the social skills part. There was something there about him that I couldn't figure out. Maybe he was love-shy or had social anxiety. Who knows.