Do Girls Really Love Assholes?

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  • I don't. I'm attracted to nice guys and quiet guys. It's so sweet when they act nervous. Aggressive guys are a turn off actually. I get bad vibes from them and I don't find them to be genuine.

    I met my BF at work and the night he asked me out I was working alone in Cosmetics and he knocked over a display, I said I'd get it but he ran off saying he'd come back to clean it up. He told me he walked over about 10 times before he had the nerve to ask me out. ^.^

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    • That's... just...

      ADORABLE!

      I wish I was more like you. I find it cute and sweet when awkward guys do stuff like this, but I just don't get that spark of "ohmigod, I want him to do me now!" like I do with guys that are like... arrogant, confident, and a little aggressive.

      I think the perfect match, however, is definitely someone who is genuinely sweet and nice, but isn't too shy to be a bit forward, and who thinks highly of himself, but doesn't flaunt it. It makes me feel good to be with someone who likes who they are and goes for what they want with a passion :)

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      • Well I have to say that I wish he were a little more aggressive sometimes, but I have no problem taking on that role ;)

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    • @rin:

      That's so sweet. Clearly not all girls love assholes.

      Being nervous is not bad, being foolish or lack of vision is bad. I think ur BF has none of these problems. Good match! Good luck!

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    • I think I'm actually a lot like you. I think its cute when a guy isn't for sure what to do around a girl, just all nervous. I more confident the more I think is he really caring about who I am or does he just think I'm hot.

      But I have a feeling it might have to do with my past even though I don't think about it that much. Just the fact I can be shy and cautious too.

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      • I agree! :)

        I can be shy/anxious too and I think that makes be acutely aware of everything and everyone around me.

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