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all males fantasize about sexual encounters with female friends/acquaintances or even who they just see on the street etcetera. while they are masturbating or having sex with their partners
Do females know this
Do females know that given the chance their male 'friends' would gladly have sex with them if it was possible and defiantly think about having sex with them while pleasuring themselves.
It probably depends on the male friend of course. Honestly, the best male friends I ever had in my life were gay men, but I've also had plenty of straight friends who were like brothers. Not all males are addicted to pornography and self abuse though. I usually judge a guy and his intentions on how he talks about other women. I'm not a big fan of guys who don't respect their mother's or sister's, nor am I interested in knowing guys who are obsessed with how much they hate their ex girlfriends. I also take note of how much someone objectifies others, and how much he or she talks about sexual stuff just out of the blue or whether or not the person uses or is a fan of pornography. Sure, I come off as fairly conservative and judgemental, but in face to face dealings with other people I find that the less I talk and the more I listen people will tend to naturally open up about themselves, because most people, especially men, count talking about themselves as a favorite topic. I also try to pick up on the vibes people put out and trust my instincts. When people show me who they are I believe them.
Sure there are plenty of people like yourself, OP, but not everyone is the same.
why are women so innocent on this,?
I find it hard to believe, !
gay men won't or obviously men who don't find the woman attractive
but ANY man will fantasize about any attractive woman / ,woman they find sexy that they know at some time.
This is the truth don't be so naive.
What has porn or obsessive masterbation got to do with this?
ofcourse , probably some men too
I have no problem with it, quite a complement really.
I would hate to live on a planet where people's private thoughts could be controlled
Having a woman think of me while playing with her self is almost as much of a turn on as a woman doing it infront of me while looking at me(or even while laying beside me with eyes closed holding my hand and thinking about whatever she wants while masterbating .
I assume you are a gay woman.This doesn't mean men who know you or even see you won't be whacking off to you, on the contrary they will be more so. Also don't you think your gay friends male or female will be doing the same because if you are sexually attractive to anyone - gay ,straight , male or female someone you know will ,at sometime,be fantasizing about you.
Think about it. Have you never ever thought about anyone you know or even just saw somewhere who is not your partner while you masturbate
You cannot say you have not because that would mean that you only think about your current partner while doing so. Remember to think of an ex , in your opinion, surely would be wrong.
This would also mean between your relationships you could not masturbate unless I suppose you can get off on cartoons.