That’s my point, I already lead the relationship and I’m always fair and consider his views and needs when I say or do things. But he sometimes wants to challenge me but 99% of the time backs down and does what I said in the first place. We can have hours or even days bickering and arguing about something then in the end he just says, oh do whatever you think best. But, if he acknowledges that I am in charge and knows I have listened to him and considered his opinion, then he doesn’t need to do all of the arguing, especially if he knows that he is expected not to argue and if he does there will be a consequence.
Yeah I will say this. Men don’t like fuss, but then they don’t like to be walked all over either, because it’s emasculating. Leaves men in a funny place, wanting to keep it simple but not wanting to be passive and submissive. I’d say he has to put up a fight for his own pride and ego but in the end at times that would be against his own rationale, women often are right and consider things more completely
Yes I get your point but I’ve decided it’s something I’d like to experiment with. I told him earlier today I’d like to give it a go, we are both home at the moment in lockdown because of this Coronavirus so I told him no one else needs to know as we are not seeing anyone or having anyone in, even if we were no one else need know anyway. It’s not like I want him running around dressed as some sort of sissy housemaid. I’ve told him if he goes along with this he will get his reward in the bedroom, although he might need to reward me 2 or 3 times first, but I will introduce that little bit of information later once he’s on side. He’s going through his grumpy stage of acceptance at the moment so things will probably start slowly but progressively from tomorrow or the next day.
As you wanted up dates today his training began. He had lessons in using the washing machine and ironing his own shirts. He also found out what it’s like when I get an orgasm and he doesn’t, it’s usually the other way round, but this afternoon I told him I thought we should go to bed for a bit of fun. Then I had him give me oral twice, before I broke the news to him that it was time to stop, as the washing machine would have finished it’s cycle so it was time to go hang the washing out to dry. Tomorrow he’s going to find out that the bed doesn’t miraculously change the bedding on it’s own and the bathroom is not self cleaning. I’ve told him tomorrow afternoon I expect another orgasm, or maybe 2, and if he does his chores to an acceptable standard I may let him have his wicked way with me after my orgasm. I will be finding fault with his chores so he won’t actually get his wicked way but he doesn’t need to know that just yet. Saturday morning will be his time but I’m not sure yet when I will break that news to him.
So today he excelled himself, he made me breakfast in bed and then gave me a beautiful orgasm, he spoilt it a bit by asking to make love to me afterwards then sulking when I said no. It worked out well in the end though he changed the bedding, did a great job of cleaning the bathroom under my supervision, made lunch for the both of us then cleaned the kitchen up. He also did 2 loads of laundry and some ironing before asking if we could go back to bed. I was delighted and told him I needed 2 orgasms before we discussed his needs. He gave me a lovely back massage before using his fingers to bring me to orgasm, then after some cuddling and him sucking my nipples then kissing me all over he did a lovely job with his tongue. Once I’d recovered the poor man thought it was his turn so I explained how impressed I was with him but what let him down today was sulking this morning just because I said no to sex. I explained that incurred him a 48 hour penalty but if he keeps up the good work his time will come on Saturday.
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That’s my point, I already lead the relationship and I’m always fair and consider his views and needs when I say or do things. But he sometimes wants to challenge me but 99% of the time backs down and does what I said in the first place. We can have hours or even days bickering and arguing about something then in the end he just says, oh do whatever you think best. But, if he acknowledges that I am in charge and knows I have listened to him and considered his opinion, then he doesn’t need to do all of the arguing, especially if he knows that he is expected not to argue and if he does there will be a consequence.
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Yeah I will say this. Men don’t like fuss, but then they don’t like to be walked all over either, because it’s emasculating. Leaves men in a funny place, wanting to keep it simple but not wanting to be passive and submissive. I’d say he has to put up a fight for his own pride and ego but in the end at times that would be against his own rationale, women often are right and consider things more completely
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Yes I get your point but I’ve decided it’s something I’d like to experiment with. I told him earlier today I’d like to give it a go, we are both home at the moment in lockdown because of this Coronavirus so I told him no one else needs to know as we are not seeing anyone or having anyone in, even if we were no one else need know anyway. It’s not like I want him running around dressed as some sort of sissy housemaid. I’ve told him if he goes along with this he will get his reward in the bedroom, although he might need to reward me 2 or 3 times first, but I will introduce that little bit of information later once he’s on side. He’s going through his grumpy stage of acceptance at the moment so things will probably start slowly but progressively from tomorrow or the next day.
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As you wanted up dates today his training began. He had lessons in using the washing machine and ironing his own shirts. He also found out what it’s like when I get an orgasm and he doesn’t, it’s usually the other way round, but this afternoon I told him I thought we should go to bed for a bit of fun. Then I had him give me oral twice, before I broke the news to him that it was time to stop, as the washing machine would have finished it’s cycle so it was time to go hang the washing out to dry. Tomorrow he’s going to find out that the bed doesn’t miraculously change the bedding on it’s own and the bathroom is not self cleaning. I’ve told him tomorrow afternoon I expect another orgasm, or maybe 2, and if he does his chores to an acceptable standard I may let him have his wicked way with me after my orgasm. I will be finding fault with his chores so he won’t actually get his wicked way but he doesn’t need to know that just yet. Saturday morning will be his time but I’m not sure yet when I will break that news to him.
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So today he excelled himself, he made me breakfast in bed and then gave me a beautiful orgasm, he spoilt it a bit by asking to make love to me afterwards then sulking when I said no. It worked out well in the end though he changed the bedding, did a great job of cleaning the bathroom under my supervision, made lunch for the both of us then cleaned the kitchen up. He also did 2 loads of laundry and some ironing before asking if we could go back to bed. I was delighted and told him I needed 2 orgasms before we discussed his needs. He gave me a lovely back massage before using his fingers to bring me to orgasm, then after some cuddling and him sucking my nipples then kissing me all over he did a lovely job with his tongue. Once I’d recovered the poor man thought it was his turn so I explained how impressed I was with him but what let him down today was sulking this morning just because I said no to sex. I explained that incurred him a 48 hour penalty but if he keeps up the good work his time will come on Saturday.
Man I tell ya the single life is pretty good. I often take it for granted
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