Well, it really depends on a couples preference. My boyfriend knows all about my past sexual partners and such. It was hard to talk about, but I felt he should know. I can undertsand why she doesn't want to tell you though. No matter what, even her telling you about one guy she slept with wouldn't feel good to know. If it did happen to be quite a few men, how would you react then? Would you dump her, judge her, dig into memorys that hurt her to remember? I understand why you would want to know, but try to understand why she doesn't want to tell you. It doesn't change who she is as a person :)
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Well, it really depends on a couples preference. My boyfriend knows all about my past sexual partners and such. It was hard to talk about, but I felt he should know. I can undertsand why she doesn't want to tell you though. No matter what, even her telling you about one guy she slept with wouldn't feel good to know. If it did happen to be quite a few men, how would you react then? Would you dump her, judge her, dig into memorys that hurt her to remember? I understand why you would want to know, but try to understand why she doesn't want to tell you. It doesn't change who she is as a person :)