It is dissapointing to me to see that you are int he minority. I wonder hwo tommythecat feels "reputation" plays into it.
I thought perhaps my gender was evolving, not seeing it so far but I still have hope. I wonder if they have considered how it makes her feel to not trust her to tell you if there is anything important that they need to know in her past. TRUST TRUST TRUST if you do no trust her to have your back on this without getting a damn list, you are not ready for a fully commited relationship. Perhaps too you can trade lists of acceptable behavior for every situation. OH and you better find out how many times with each person, also their numbers and name so you can keep an eye on her phone and while at it get all the numbers out of her contact list and check them all out because she is too stupid and too unfaithful to be trusted to do the right thing you know ? TIE that bitch down quick and get all the info. I promise you that you will be standing alone and hurt in the near future I am trying to save you a painful lesson, and it took me many and a lot of pain...plops off his soap box
We are two entirely separate people. Yes, we are in love, but how can you expect us to have the exact same impressions of what is and is not important? I trust her, you have no idea how much I trust her. I want a list for my own personal reasons, namely so I do not have to wonder/worry how high the number is and so I am not asking my self if she has slept with every guy we see out that she knows. Maybe that wouldn't bother you, but I don't enjoy not knowing. It does occur to me that I am asking for a great deal of trust, for she is so clearly not proud of her past, but I also consider my piece of mind to be important.
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It is dissapointing to me to see that you are int he minority. I wonder hwo tommythecat feels "reputation" plays into it.
I thought perhaps my gender was evolving, not seeing it so far but I still have hope. I wonder if they have considered how it makes her feel to not trust her to tell you if there is anything important that they need to know in her past. TRUST TRUST TRUST if you do no trust her to have your back on this without getting a damn list, you are not ready for a fully commited relationship. Perhaps too you can trade lists of acceptable behavior for every situation. OH and you better find out how many times with each person, also their numbers and name so you can keep an eye on her phone and while at it get all the numbers out of her contact list and check them all out because she is too stupid and too unfaithful to be trusted to do the right thing you know ? TIE that bitch down quick and get all the info. I promise you that you will be standing alone and hurt in the near future I am trying to save you a painful lesson, and it took me many and a lot of pain...plops off his soap box
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We are two entirely separate people. Yes, we are in love, but how can you expect us to have the exact same impressions of what is and is not important? I trust her, you have no idea how much I trust her. I want a list for my own personal reasons, namely so I do not have to wonder/worry how high the number is and so I am not asking my self if she has slept with every guy we see out that she knows. Maybe that wouldn't bother you, but I don't enjoy not knowing. It does occur to me that I am asking for a great deal of trust, for she is so clearly not proud of her past, but I also consider my piece of mind to be important.