I do not think it is normal, normal means that it is done by the majority of people. My opinion is it is only done by immature people who have not learned about trust. What you or who you in this case did in the past is not anyones business but yours and the person you were with unless you choose for it to be. You are responsible for your health and your CURRENT status in regards to std's, not if you had them or a past partner had them. IN fact that would be a breach of your past partners medical privacy which in our country is considered sacred. If you love her and trust her then why would you even want to know, what if she was the horniest slut off high school an now she isn't? Do you really want to ruin your relationship, it will. I had to grow out or that petty kind of possessivness and I feel that it is the first step towards trying to control something that you shouldn't be controlling such as someones past. It will not change whether you know about it or not it will be the same. What will not be the same is her respect for you, she will lose quite a bit for your lack of strength and insecurity. The other issue I have with it is our wonderful double standard. I freely admit I was. ok am a complete slut but as a man I get to be a stud, as a woman if they said that they would be shunned by many and approached by asses who don't reaize that being a slut doesn't mean it has to be with multiple people. I love my slut :-) she is horny and wants me all the time and she is such a slut I love her to death. OH and some of the things she does that I'm sure someone in her past taught her....I have no wish to know who but I do wish her to keep doing it to me!!! I'm just saying
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I do not think it is normal, normal means that it is done by the majority of people. My opinion is it is only done by immature people who have not learned about trust. What you or who you in this case did in the past is not anyones business but yours and the person you were with unless you choose for it to be. You are responsible for your health and your CURRENT status in regards to std's, not if you had them or a past partner had them. IN fact that would be a breach of your past partners medical privacy which in our country is considered sacred. If you love her and trust her then why would you even want to know, what if she was the horniest slut off high school an now she isn't? Do you really want to ruin your relationship, it will. I had to grow out or that petty kind of possessivness and I feel that it is the first step towards trying to control something that you shouldn't be controlling such as someones past. It will not change whether you know about it or not it will be the same. What will not be the same is her respect for you, she will lose quite a bit for your lack of strength and insecurity. The other issue I have with it is our wonderful double standard. I freely admit I was. ok am a complete slut but as a man I get to be a stud, as a woman if they said that they would be shunned by many and approached by asses who don't reaize that being a slut doesn't mean it has to be with multiple people. I love my slut :-) she is horny and wants me all the time and she is such a slut I love her to death. OH and some of the things she does that I'm sure someone in her past taught her....I have no wish to know who but I do wish her to keep doing it to me!!! I'm just saying