Disclosing sexual partners

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    If she is dating you you have a right to know. i mean seriously std's, reputation, theres all sorts of things to consider

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    • milkymum
      11 years ago | pl

      why if they love each other the past doesnt count

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago | pl

        Thats right it dosnt count. SO THERE SHOULDN'T BE A PROBLEM REVEALING IT!!!! If they love each other one shouldn't be keeping secrets.

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        • milkymum
          11 years ago | pl

          why not maybe something happened to her in her past which she finds embarressing or hurts her and might take time for her to say what it is

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          • [Old Memory]
            11 years ago | pl

            Then take the time or say something that hints at it so they know but you dont have to discuss it. But this is about someone not saying it at all. Keeping the past hidden and refusing to say anything about it just shows you cant be trusted to tell the truth. Not good for love.

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            • milkymum
              11 years ago | pl

              maybe she was abused or raped and finds it hard to tell someone, also if the guy is asking her all the time she might just not tell him cos hes always going on about it or how he is asking her or if its none stop asking, that would put anyone off.

              Also maybe shes scared of telling him cos he will leave her.

              She will tell him when she wants to.

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              • [Old Memory]
                11 years ago | pl

                Its not what were talking about for the second time. Number of people had sex with is different to number of people raped by.

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              • [Old Memory]
                11 years ago | pl

                And he said she wouldn't say how many people shes been with. So whats that got to do with being raped, im sure you can leave the rapist out of the number lol. But if she wants to be with him he's got the right to know how many men shes been with so he can make his own choice. Just like she has the right to know the same about him.

                If someone wont say then thats a pretty clear indication thier an untrustworthy slut. I know because ive been with alot of girls and i lie about it...and i wouldnt trust someone like me in a million years...

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago | pl

          "Oh i love you but i cant tell you" people like that are fuck heads full stop.

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    • JustDave
      11 years ago | pl

      I confess Tommythecat, I completly agree with you on this. To the OP...would you buy a car without knowing the mileage?

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