We are two entirely separate people. Yes, we are in love, but how can you expect us to have the exact same impressions of what is and is not important? I trust her, you have no idea how much I trust her. I want a list for my own personal reasons, namely so I do not have to wonder/worry how high the number is and so I am not asking my self if she has slept with every guy we see out that she knows. Maybe that wouldn't bother you, but I don't enjoy not knowing. It does occur to me that I am asking for a great deal of trust, for she is so clearly not proud of her past, but I also consider my piece of mind to be important.
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We are two entirely separate people. Yes, we are in love, but how can you expect us to have the exact same impressions of what is and is not important? I trust her, you have no idea how much I trust her. I want a list for my own personal reasons, namely so I do not have to wonder/worry how high the number is and so I am not asking my self if she has slept with every guy we see out that she knows. Maybe that wouldn't bother you, but I don't enjoy not knowing. It does occur to me that I am asking for a great deal of trust, for she is so clearly not proud of her past, but I also consider my piece of mind to be important.