I said normal... but I don't think its wise. While you may want to know, and she may want to be honest... it probably isn't a good idea. Lol Seriously, no one wants to be judged and that's usually the reason behind her being secretive. I've only experienced my current bf asking this question. I felt like my number was high.. not that I was embarrased or ashamed... but sometimes (depending on ur upbringing and other things) shit happens lol.
I lost my virginity at 15... peer pressure was a big part of it. And at that age I didn't value my body, didn't know what it meant to share my body with a guy... and then as I got older I still didn't get it... I wasn't "loose", I didn't have sex with everyone I dated... but there were times that I really didn't have a relationship with that person, it just felt right. But a month or two later we weren't dating anymore... happens to ppl all the time. Its not a one night stand, but who wants to keep adding notches to their belt with no meaning/feelings...
When asked about the number of ppl I've been with I was offended and didn't answer for a long time... although I have answered him since... I needed him to know that I didn't want to be judged for things done in the past and if the number of partners had any influence on our relationship id rather be single. I never asked him, because it isn't important.
What's important is that I've never had a STD *
Knock on wood* and he and I get tested together twice a yr. I'm only sleeping with him and I expect the same. I mean, when you find out her number, what will you do with the information?
Everyone has a past. If she lied how would you ever know? Just asking...
Disclosing sexual partners
← View full post
I said normal... but I don't think its wise. While you may want to know, and she may want to be honest... it probably isn't a good idea. Lol Seriously, no one wants to be judged and that's usually the reason behind her being secretive. I've only experienced my current bf asking this question. I felt like my number was high.. not that I was embarrased or ashamed... but sometimes (depending on ur upbringing and other things) shit happens lol.
I lost my virginity at 15... peer pressure was a big part of it. And at that age I didn't value my body, didn't know what it meant to share my body with a guy... and then as I got older I still didn't get it... I wasn't "loose", I didn't have sex with everyone I dated... but there were times that I really didn't have a relationship with that person, it just felt right. But a month or two later we weren't dating anymore... happens to ppl all the time. Its not a one night stand, but who wants to keep adding notches to their belt with no meaning/feelings...
When asked about the number of ppl I've been with I was offended and didn't answer for a long time... although I have answered him since... I needed him to know that I didn't want to be judged for things done in the past and if the number of partners had any influence on our relationship id rather be single. I never asked him, because it isn't important.
What's important is that I've never had a STD *
Knock on wood* and he and I get tested together twice a yr. I'm only sleeping with him and I expect the same. I mean, when you find out her number, what will you do with the information?
Everyone has a past. If she lied how would you ever know? Just asking...