Then take the time or say something that hints at it so they know but you dont have to discuss it. But this is about someone not saying it at all. Keeping the past hidden and refusing to say anything about it just shows you cant be trusted to tell the truth. Not good for love.
maybe she was abused or raped and finds it hard to tell someone, also if the guy is asking her all the time she might just not tell him cos hes always going on about it or how he is asking her or if its none stop asking, that would put anyone off.
Also maybe shes scared of telling him cos he will leave her.
as i said i used the "rape" as an example!!! and it doesnt matter how many guys she laid on her back for thats her past he should be looking to there future and all im saying is she will be ready to tell him when shes ready and how do you know that she dont want to tell him cos of the way hes asking her or how much hes going on about it all the time. Also if hes "loves her" it doesnt matter how many guys shes laid on her back for
And he said she wouldn't say how many people shes been with. So whats that got to do with being raped, im sure you can leave the rapist out of the number lol. But if she wants to be with him he's got the right to know how many men shes been with so he can make his own choice. Just like she has the right to know the same about him.
If someone wont say then thats a pretty clear indication thier an untrustworthy slut. I know because ive been with alot of girls and i lie about it...and i wouldnt trust someone like me in a million years...
all i ment was maybe soemthing happened to her with other guys and i used "rape" as an example, so just cos she wont say shes a slut, why? if she isnt telling then there must be a good reason why and not down to hopw many shes slept with because if it was just that I'm sure she would say also if the guy is going on about it 24/7 that wont help or how hes asking her etc etc.
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why not maybe something happened to her in her past which she finds embarressing or hurts her and might take time for her to say what it is
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Then take the time or say something that hints at it so they know but you dont have to discuss it. But this is about someone not saying it at all. Keeping the past hidden and refusing to say anything about it just shows you cant be trusted to tell the truth. Not good for love.
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maybe she was abused or raped and finds it hard to tell someone, also if the guy is asking her all the time she might just not tell him cos hes always going on about it or how he is asking her or if its none stop asking, that would put anyone off.
Also maybe shes scared of telling him cos he will leave her.
She will tell him when she wants to.
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Its not what were talking about for the second time. Number of people had sex with is different to number of people raped by.
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as i said i used the "rape" as an example!!! and it doesnt matter how many guys she laid on her back for thats her past he should be looking to there future and all im saying is she will be ready to tell him when shes ready and how do you know that she dont want to tell him cos of the way hes asking her or how much hes going on about it all the time. Also if hes "loves her" it doesnt matter how many guys shes laid on her back for
And he said she wouldn't say how many people shes been with. So whats that got to do with being raped, im sure you can leave the rapist out of the number lol. But if she wants to be with him he's got the right to know how many men shes been with so he can make his own choice. Just like she has the right to know the same about him.
If someone wont say then thats a pretty clear indication thier an untrustworthy slut. I know because ive been with alot of girls and i lie about it...and i wouldnt trust someone like me in a million years...
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all i ment was maybe soemthing happened to her with other guys and i used "rape" as an example, so just cos she wont say shes a slut, why? if she isnt telling then there must be a good reason why and not down to hopw many shes slept with because if it was just that I'm sure she would say also if the guy is going on about it 24/7 that wont help or how hes asking her etc etc.