Homosexuality is an issue of disposition. It can change just like any other disposition, to be rightly ordered or wrongly ordered. One is also born with set dispositions that can change. So it is not that one "becomes" a homosexual. Rather, their dispositions change that they feel inclined toward the same gender, and that can change back, of course. The same is true if one is born with an inclination toward the same gender; it can also change.
So, in that way, she has "become" a lesbian in that her dispositions are such that she feels attracted to the same gender as herself, when she did not before. Before, she possessed a disposition of attraction toward the opposite gender, thus she wasn't a lesbian. So, yes, she did "become" a lesbian.
Did my friend actually turn gay or were they born gay?
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Homosexuality is an issue of disposition. It can change just like any other disposition, to be rightly ordered or wrongly ordered. One is also born with set dispositions that can change. So it is not that one "becomes" a homosexual. Rather, their dispositions change that they feel inclined toward the same gender, and that can change back, of course. The same is true if one is born with an inclination toward the same gender; it can also change.
So, in that way, she has "become" a lesbian in that her dispositions are such that she feels attracted to the same gender as herself, when she did not before. Before, she possessed a disposition of attraction toward the opposite gender, thus she wasn't a lesbian. So, yes, she did "become" a lesbian.