Well, you could always see it from the perspective that school is temporary. But... I do think that when you're at school, and trying to pass, preparing yourself for the future, etc. It is very stressful. That's normal, but I think it's pretty sad that they compare you to your brother. You are your own person. You shouldn't be compared.
Understand that you're great already at being who you are, not who he is. Your parents need to understand that if you're gonna change, it's gonna be on your terms for good reasons, and not under theirs. You need to tell your parents how you feel. You have to tell them that you're sick of being compared, and that it makes you feel belittled.
Depressed at school and hate parents' expectation
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Well, you could always see it from the perspective that school is temporary. But... I do think that when you're at school, and trying to pass, preparing yourself for the future, etc. It is very stressful. That's normal, but I think it's pretty sad that they compare you to your brother. You are your own person. You shouldn't be compared.
Understand that you're great already at being who you are, not who he is. Your parents need to understand that if you're gonna change, it's gonna be on your terms for good reasons, and not under theirs. You need to tell your parents how you feel. You have to tell them that you're sick of being compared, and that it makes you feel belittled.