Males nowadays are far more bearable than females, from my observations. I'm not saying all females are just unbearable, I am saying that it's much easier and emotionally fulfilling to fill that "relationship" (friendship) sense with a male than it is with a female.
I am a heterosexual male, I find females "sexually" appealing, although I just can't imagine living with one, sexually appealing is all that I see appealing by them. The brief times I communicate with them irritates me enough.
In my experience, males fulfill another man's sense of comfort and loyalty far more than a female can when they are past the caring point of "If I am emotional for a male friend, I am a homosexual" stage.
I don't know, I just think the majority of females nowadays are unbearable. I wish I didn't, but then again I am only reacting to the acts I have observed and had to deal with, and I don't want to put myself in a situation that would make it a frequent thing to deal with females.
I wouldn't say it's normal, although I would say it should be. I think more men would be comfortable if we got past this whole "bromance is gay" thing going on, that if you are emotionally attached to another male, yet not sexually attached to them, then it makes you homosexual. I think if we got past that stage, more males will consider male housemates than living with females.
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Yes, I fully understand that a lot of female users will thumb this down, and that is one of the reasons for me coming to this conclusion, that if someone doesn't find you bearable or perfect, then they are wrong, because you shit out rainbows, puke butterflies, and whatnot, right?
Thank you for, pretty much, summarizing half of my personal life.
I have to communicate with people regardless of their gender and orientation, and mostly it goes very well. Again, I'm trying my best not to generalize and say things like "oh, yeah, I can't tolerate chicks". Because I've had nice female roommates and friends before. However, the second it gets beyond the level of casual friendship -I find myself trying to avoid too much contact. I'm that guy who never called the day after. Really, not because I'm a big douche, just because I'd really rather date a dude.
And that works great, except for the sex life.
By the way -historically, many societies considered a love between 2 men as sacred and pure. A good example is the japanese feudal times. (yeah, the samurai) Not even mentioning the greeks and romans.
So either bromance is gay and we all slowly start to doubt our initial orientation, or men are really meant to be with other men, dating women just for reproductional and sexual purposes. I dunno, really.
And i think this whole thread will be thumbed down to oblivion in a few hours, haha.
I agree with what you said. I feel rather negative for not having much to reply to your reply since you took time to type so much out. Just be assured that it's because I agree with what you said.
I never knew that about the Japanese feudal times thing, I'm glad you told me about that.
I hope this doesn't get shot down, I think it's a good post to have on this site.
After working in a grocery store and dealing with a lot of people. From my analysis, it seems that the easiest people to deal with are men in their thirties.
You need to find a woman who thinks like a man. ;p I know I'm not perfect myself, I hate my bloody hormones sometimes, but I generally have such a hard time even having other female friends. Things get weird or drama happens or they'll start treating everything as competition.. x.x I'm much happier being one of the guys. Guess id call my mentality androgynous. I hate typing on my iPhone. I swear they keep making the keypad less responsive.
Argh, I've been getting that myself, really not sure why. I sometimes get on on my phone so I don't know if that has anything to do with notifications disappearing but doesn't seem like it should.
And it's hard to find people you really click with, especially for all us weirdos here. ;P You're a relatively "normal" person or whatnot, you're gonna find generic someone or other's all over the place to try on.
You're one of us freaks, the selection thins out a little. But we shall prevail in the end, or something.
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Males nowadays are far more bearable than females, from my observations. I'm not saying all females are just unbearable, I am saying that it's much easier and emotionally fulfilling to fill that "relationship" (friendship) sense with a male than it is with a female.
I am a heterosexual male, I find females "sexually" appealing, although I just can't imagine living with one, sexually appealing is all that I see appealing by them. The brief times I communicate with them irritates me enough.
In my experience, males fulfill another man's sense of comfort and loyalty far more than a female can when they are past the caring point of "If I am emotional for a male friend, I am a homosexual" stage.
I don't know, I just think the majority of females nowadays are unbearable. I wish I didn't, but then again I am only reacting to the acts I have observed and had to deal with, and I don't want to put myself in a situation that would make it a frequent thing to deal with females.
I wouldn't say it's normal, although I would say it should be. I think more men would be comfortable if we got past this whole "bromance is gay" thing going on, that if you are emotionally attached to another male, yet not sexually attached to them, then it makes you homosexual. I think if we got past that stage, more males will consider male housemates than living with females.
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Yes, I fully understand that a lot of female users will thumb this down, and that is one of the reasons for me coming to this conclusion, that if someone doesn't find you bearable or perfect, then they are wrong, because you shit out rainbows, puke butterflies, and whatnot, right?
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Well, I definitely will thumb this up :)
Thank you for, pretty much, summarizing half of my personal life.
I have to communicate with people regardless of their gender and orientation, and mostly it goes very well. Again, I'm trying my best not to generalize and say things like "oh, yeah, I can't tolerate chicks". Because I've had nice female roommates and friends before. However, the second it gets beyond the level of casual friendship -I find myself trying to avoid too much contact. I'm that guy who never called the day after. Really, not because I'm a big douche, just because I'd really rather date a dude.
And that works great, except for the sex life.
By the way -historically, many societies considered a love between 2 men as sacred and pure. A good example is the japanese feudal times. (yeah, the samurai) Not even mentioning the greeks and romans.
So either bromance is gay and we all slowly start to doubt our initial orientation, or men are really meant to be with other men, dating women just for reproductional and sexual purposes. I dunno, really.
And i think this whole thread will be thumbed down to oblivion in a few hours, haha.
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I agree with what you said. I feel rather negative for not having much to reply to your reply since you took time to type so much out. Just be assured that it's because I agree with what you said.
I never knew that about the Japanese feudal times thing, I'm glad you told me about that.
I hope this doesn't get shot down, I think it's a good post to have on this site.
Thumbs up for your comment.
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Looming eminence...of "ItDuz" and "Impostrurously yours" (kinky porn names by the way) engaging in homosexual sex...
After working in a grocery store and dealing with a lot of people. From my analysis, it seems that the easiest people to deal with are men in their thirties.
You need to find a woman who thinks like a man. ;p I know I'm not perfect myself, I hate my bloody hormones sometimes, but I generally have such a hard time even having other female friends. Things get weird or drama happens or they'll start treating everything as competition.. x.x I'm much happier being one of the guys. Guess id call my mentality androgynous. I hate typing on my iPhone. I swear they keep making the keypad less responsive.
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Agreed, if I was to have a partner, they would have to have male characteristics.
Sorry for late response. For some reason, IIN isn't sending all of the notifications.
I agree with everything you said, and maybe one day I will find a woman like yourself.
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Argh, I've been getting that myself, really not sure why. I sometimes get on on my phone so I don't know if that has anything to do with notifications disappearing but doesn't seem like it should.
And it's hard to find people you really click with, especially for all us weirdos here. ;P You're a relatively "normal" person or whatnot, you're gonna find generic someone or other's all over the place to try on.
You're one of us freaks, the selection thins out a little. But we shall prevail in the end, or something.