Daughter sleeps nude with dad

My oldest daughter refuses to wear pjs or even just pantys to bed ever since her mom passed away and will only sleep with daddy . what do i do? shes sixteen too old to sleep nude with dad .?

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  • are you referring to yourself in third person or are you the mother that came back from the dead?

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  • Unless you're just Trolling, you certainly know the answer... I hope we don't get to see another post next week reading "Daughter f*cks dad hard, IIN?" and you writing under it "OMG! My daughter raped me!!! Holly sh*t, I didn't see that coming..."!

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  • soo not normal at all.

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  • um. she's 16 and wants to sleep naked next to you?

    sounds like she knows what she wants, and it's not sleep.

    at least wait until she's 18 ...

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  • She could be trying to take on the roll of her mother sub -conciously

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  • The only answer I can give is that shit ain't right.

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  • Sleep with her naked

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  • Nudity makes one feel naked, not just physically, but for some, right into one's self. Lying on her mom's side may make her [daughter] feel more connected to her [mother].

    Perhaps she dislikes clothing in bed. I do, too, but that's with my sweetheart, not .. Dad. (That'd be awkward LVL9000.)

    She could be sub-consciously feeling obliged to 'continue her mom's responsibility' or.., you know, trying to "get some". But that's my last-resort thought.

    Talk to her about it. And, seriously, set an indoor camp in the living room from now on until missy moves her rear back to her own room.

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  • *shudder*

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  • I'd have to say that is definitely not normal, its kind of disturbing. Is he comfortable with it?

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  • Maybe

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  • U should sleep with naked to I would i promise u I would

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  • Well umm it kinda depends if Daddy has spots on his undies in the mornin'

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    • No it doesn't - men get erections for no reason, and coupled with that is a wet penis

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  • I don't know about favorites my two oldest girls, my ex step daughter and my daughter were my Saving Grace after my step daughter's mother left meet for somebody else an old friend of mine LOL relationship lasted 5 months. But my girls were the ones that basically came in and saved the day.and saved dad and spend time with me when I needed them most. But at 3 get me back on track again they stay with me for three four months we had a good time I mean they had to go home every now and then but they always came back to 3-4 days later. Love my babies my youngest ones they were still in school so they couldn't come except every now and then they weren't really into the lifestyle like the older ones were

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  • Not a thing in the world wrong with that. both of my girls slept with me that way from the time they are little bitty and they still come home for vacation or just to get away and still sleep with daddy that way. We wouldn't change a thing. Get up in the bed turn the TV on watch a bunch of movies by them whatever they want, eat popcorn snacks. not a big deal

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  • k heres what you do next time she comes to bed nude make a move if shes into it make her forget all about her mom if shes not well she should be sufficiently creeped out enough to go to her own bed.

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  • when I am at home I am always nude, also if there are my parents

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  • Incest

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  • You're nasty

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  • oh well um this certainly is NOT normal! haha But if you waited this long to ask for help then obviously you don't mind (:

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  • Do nothing, that's what.

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  • though not normal it isnt bad. most rational people would say it sends the wrong message. my answer is to think, "What would i feel if my neighbor/boss knew" and decide accordingly

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  • hahaha the dad is a chester.

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  • =o reminds me of that creepy movie 'Wicked' with Julia Stiles.. watch it!

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  • Where do you sleep then? I'm almost positive that you are making this up but if not that is totally gross!

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  • I think if there's nothing sexual in it and she just likes to feel close to her dad then let her carry on. It's her own way of grieving maybe? Nothing wrong with nudity. Have a naked hug!

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  • Considering the situation... probably not normal if the Mother passed away several years ago. However, it would be NORMAL if the mother passed away several weeks to months ago. Do yourself and her a favor, and sleep with her nude. She wants to be close to you because of the emotional pain you share. Go Ahead! My daughter started showing interest in me at 14, and at 16 she and I are intimate. So, don't worry about all the losers on here, and make your daughter's fantacy come true. GO FOR IT, Daddy!

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  • eh i think u should ground her i she isnt listening and refusing to go 2 her own bed!

    you also need 2 be honest, and say that its not normal for her age to sleep naked with her dady.

    i understand she has a hard time becuz of her mmother passing away. but you need to tell her.

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  • U shouldn't do anything that's hot xD lol

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  • Tell her to go to her own room?

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  • Wtf? Not normal.

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  • If this is happening and you're the dad, you're stupid and gross for not putting an immediate STOP to it. If this is not happening, you're still stupid and gross for making it up as a fantasy. Pretty sure it's your twisted fantasy. And it's REALLY disgusting. You know a lot of people who get into incest, also like things like necrophilia... just saying. Seek help.

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    • You're basing that incest/necrophilia on your years of in-depth research in to people who are in to incest, right?

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  • but all in all it was a lot of fun having the girls around my biological daughter my oldest is just as much of a prankster as I am she's always upbeat and love life like me and my stepdaughter just Falls right along always got a smile on her face too so I think I did pretty good raising them they're pretty smart kids good jobs and maintain their life very well. But still come home every now and then for Daddy's good cooking and the one thing that every child Will ask can I have some money, are my favorite dad can I have some gas money. As they're walking out to their cars with most of your groceries that you bought several days earlier LOL but I wouldn't have it any other way.

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  • Well growing up with my mom and my sisters and then having my two girls and then I married a girl that had two girls I really didn't have much of a choice so Daddy pretty much had to do whatever they wanted to cuz I called at my house but it really wasn't LOL

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  • a standing prick has no conciense he will fuck her when he gets a hard on fact

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  • WHAT THE FLYING FUCK?!

    Of course, this isn't normal. You need to put your foot Down and tell her that's she too old to be sleeping with you and that she needs to stop being nude around. If you don't do something now things will only get more out of hand and what if someone finds out, gets the wrong end of the stick, and accuses you of something!

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  • Fake. No-one in their right mind would allow it

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  • That's normal she's a daddy's girl but not to sleep naked

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  • Try this experiment. After she gets in bed with you, get up and sleep in the bed in her room. If she stays on her Mom's side of the bed, then she is probably grieving her Mom. If she gets up and joins you in her bedroom, then she sexual warmth from you.

    There are groups for children in the grieving process. Her heart is broken. Be gentle and keep your pants on.

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  • Dont listen to mixa

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  • WTF? Get your kid help!

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  • In this case grief affects people in strange ways.

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  • Uh I think her dad is a CHILD RAPIST!

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  • Americans will generally say this is not normal British will generally say it is normal because we're not as prudish and don't see sex in everything. There are whole nudist families, which are totally innocent. Most commenters are probably American, so brought up believing that nudity is somehow "sinful" - ignore them.

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  • aitn koll to sleep with your dad nude, no respect but doesnt make you a bad person or anything :)

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