when you say most women seek people far ahead of the curve in term of career i think you might give women the negative impression. a lot of women don't care about this that much, or they care about it but are not obsessed with it. i tend to see guys who are successful careerwise think a lot of women must love them so much because of that. but what actually happens is when a guy places too much emphasis on attractiving women with a successful career, he mindlessly/casually shows off in conversations that push women away
Dating sucks for men, while women just pick and choose
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when you say most women seek people far ahead of the curve in term of career i think you might give women the negative impression. a lot of women don't care about this that much, or they care about it but are not obsessed with it. i tend to see guys who are successful careerwise think a lot of women must love them so much because of that. but what actually happens is when a guy places too much emphasis on attractiving women with a successful career, he mindlessly/casually shows off in conversations that push women away