Women usually want someone who is accomplished and who clicks with them personally, and it can be hard for them to find someone who fits both criteria. Men, on the other hand, usually want someone who is attractive and neither crazy or too needy, at least at the start of the relationship. Looking good and being sane are easier than being financially successful and powerful.
It’s frustrating to both sexes for different reasons, but in general, much of the world still sees a successful man as one who can provide for a woman, and a successful woman as one who can attract someone who provides for her.
That said, women do have struggles with dating too, namely finding someone who isn’t only interested in getting into her pants, keeping a man interested long term, finding someone who won’t bail if he gets her pregnant, and staying attractive to men their own age as they get older.
Women who are less attractive also don’t have the luxury of easily getting any guy.
Dating sucks for men, while women just pick and choose
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Women usually want someone who is accomplished and who clicks with them personally, and it can be hard for them to find someone who fits both criteria. Men, on the other hand, usually want someone who is attractive and neither crazy or too needy, at least at the start of the relationship. Looking good and being sane are easier than being financially successful and powerful.
It’s frustrating to both sexes for different reasons, but in general, much of the world still sees a successful man as one who can provide for a woman, and a successful woman as one who can attract someone who provides for her.
That said, women do have struggles with dating too, namely finding someone who isn’t only interested in getting into her pants, keeping a man interested long term, finding someone who won’t bail if he gets her pregnant, and staying attractive to men their own age as they get older.
Women who are less attractive also don’t have the luxury of easily getting any guy.