Yeah it is because men generally have low as fuck demands in real life. It's easy to test just by making a profile where you upload photos where you intentionally look like shit or even no photo and you still get flooded with flirty messages but is it easier to find a decent partner ? Nah. Most men when online dating just wants sex, many are cheaters or just overall shady... the rest are inexperienced and too shy to even make it to a date AND of course don't forget the oversharers - The first thing the oversharers do is complain about their lives, if they have mental health problems they list them and describe them in detail (this happened to me 3 years ago with a guy who was literally schizophrenic, he had some insane stories to tell man) and how sad their love life is and then they actually get surprised when you're like "nOPE". Like a dating app is not online therapy my dudes... One thing at a time...
Yeah there's decent men but usually they're very inactive on dating apps since they're also well aware of the climate on those. You sort of have to find them in real life by chance like via mutual friends, work, studies or a hobby. So NO, it's not easier for us unless, I guess, if you like to have one night stands. We also tend to be way more careful, trust me whenever we match with a guy and start talking to him we are already looking up if he has any criminal records and whatever else might be good to know. Usually us women have been through so much crap from creeps that we are sort of withdrawn and hard to get through to.
Dating sucks for men, while women just pick and choose
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Yeah it is because men generally have low as fuck demands in real life. It's easy to test just by making a profile where you upload photos where you intentionally look like shit or even no photo and you still get flooded with flirty messages but is it easier to find a decent partner ? Nah. Most men when online dating just wants sex, many are cheaters or just overall shady... the rest are inexperienced and too shy to even make it to a date AND of course don't forget the oversharers - The first thing the oversharers do is complain about their lives, if they have mental health problems they list them and describe them in detail (this happened to me 3 years ago with a guy who was literally schizophrenic, he had some insane stories to tell man) and how sad their love life is and then they actually get surprised when you're like "nOPE". Like a dating app is not online therapy my dudes... One thing at a time...
Yeah there's decent men but usually they're very inactive on dating apps since they're also well aware of the climate on those. You sort of have to find them in real life by chance like via mutual friends, work, studies or a hobby. So NO, it's not easier for us unless, I guess, if you like to have one night stands. We also tend to be way more careful, trust me whenever we match with a guy and start talking to him we are already looking up if he has any criminal records and whatever else might be good to know. Usually us women have been through so much crap from creeps that we are sort of withdrawn and hard to get through to.
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Thanks for sharing your experiences. There are many good points in there.
As for guys mainly seeking sex: I think it mainly applies to the immature (guys in their 20’s and downwards).
As a guy in my 30’s, sex isn’t even on my list of priorities. My priority is to find someone to laugh, smile and build good lifelong memories with.