1. You got to learn to move on when a woman isn't interested. Rejection is apart of life, accept it.
2. Don't highly respect women to get women, it's insincere and setting yourself up for trouble.
3. Don't give women special treatment to win their affection, that's how you get hurt or taken advantage of, save that for when you get a girlfriend.
Basically, always treat women like regular people with the typical baseline of respect, whether they're attractive or not. Value friendships, not because they can develop into something more, but because friendships are valuable.
If you keep living this "desperate for the vagina," lifestyle, you're going to get hurt a lot and become a misogynist with all these idiotic theories on why women don't want you, which will make you undesirable to women who may actually be worth your time and effort.
Yes, in a manner of speaking, every woman is different, but big picture wise the differences aren't very much.
1. Rejection isn't something I mentioned at all, nor do I have a problem with it. I have no interest in the "friend zone". If you aren't interested in a member of the opposite sex, you don't than try to remain "friends". Its disingenuous.
2. Define "highly respect". If you mean calling them out for irrational or emotion based decision making, yes I certainly do that. I don't get walked on.
3. Same as I mentioned in #2. I don't get walked on.
Mature, heterosexual adults of different genders can't be friends. I cant reasonably make an argument to a buddy of mine that when he was out of town, his wife called me because she was lonely and I just "hung out with her". If you are talking in a work environment, that is different. I'm talking outside of that.
Friendships may be valuable, but I cant remain friends with a female and then reasonably expect to meet a new female and say "hey, you really need to meet my other female friend Samantha, she's cute, and funny, and sweet, and...wait a second, why haven't I had sex with her?
Same thing for men. If I meet a good looking female and she talks about "guy friends". That is an immediate red flag. Do you want to have a serious relationship with a man? Great, that guy is your guy friend. Now, if you don't, well than have as many guy friends as you want. It wouldn't matter than.
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Every woman is different.
1. You got to learn to move on when a woman isn't interested. Rejection is apart of life, accept it.
2. Don't highly respect women to get women, it's insincere and setting yourself up for trouble.
3. Don't give women special treatment to win their affection, that's how you get hurt or taken advantage of, save that for when you get a girlfriend.
Basically, always treat women like regular people with the typical baseline of respect, whether they're attractive or not. Value friendships, not because they can develop into something more, but because friendships are valuable.
If you keep living this "desperate for the vagina," lifestyle, you're going to get hurt a lot and become a misogynist with all these idiotic theories on why women don't want you, which will make you undesirable to women who may actually be worth your time and effort.
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Yes, in a manner of speaking, every woman is different, but big picture wise the differences aren't very much.
1. Rejection isn't something I mentioned at all, nor do I have a problem with it. I have no interest in the "friend zone". If you aren't interested in a member of the opposite sex, you don't than try to remain "friends". Its disingenuous.
2. Define "highly respect". If you mean calling them out for irrational or emotion based decision making, yes I certainly do that. I don't get walked on.
3. Same as I mentioned in #2. I don't get walked on.
Mature, heterosexual adults of different genders can't be friends. I cant reasonably make an argument to a buddy of mine that when he was out of town, his wife called me because she was lonely and I just "hung out with her". If you are talking in a work environment, that is different. I'm talking outside of that.
Friendships may be valuable, but I cant remain friends with a female and then reasonably expect to meet a new female and say "hey, you really need to meet my other female friend Samantha, she's cute, and funny, and sweet, and...wait a second, why haven't I had sex with her?
Same thing for men. If I meet a good looking female and she talks about "guy friends". That is an immediate red flag. Do you want to have a serious relationship with a man? Great, that guy is your guy friend. Now, if you don't, well than have as many guy friends as you want. It wouldn't matter than.
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If this is what you wholeheartedly believe, then good luck to you and any woman foolish enough to date you as the person you are now.
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You must be new you this site. I liked you after the first comment of yours I read what can best be described as a breath of fresh air.
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Thank you for the warm welcome.
I value females for their friendship and more, if it goes that way. The cutoff can be difficult, for both parties.
I have never used a woman's emotions to gain any leverage over her.
Do you believe in monogamous relationships?
"Mature, heterosexual adults of different genders can't be friends. "
Yes they can - as long as they are not sexually attracted to each other.