Dating girl for about two months. No sex.

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  • She's well within her rights to do anything. She's well within her rights to go run off to a monastery never to be seen again. I don't want that but it would be her decision.

    I'm just asking if it's normal to not seem interested or even reject my advances after that much time without really any attempt from her to explain what's going on.

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    • I answered you. It's not only normal to not sleep with someone you're not serious about, it's also respectable, responsible, and smart.

      My comment was in response to you and everyone else, so it was a bit more general. Regardless, she's being normal and you're being impatient.

      Also, yes it will bother her if you ask her why she won't screw you. She'll feel like she is even less serious to you than the relationship is. She'll feel botheed that you want to sleep with her -before- things get serious. Woman are emotional screwers. They want to feel comfortable and secure about the person they're sleeping with. Men see sex as the act that sparks potential, women see sex as the act that ties together what's already there.

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      • I dumped a girlfriend because after 3 months she wouldn't let me unbutton her shirt. Her friends said it took her two years to get over me. Go figure.

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