She seems like she isn't that interested. As a female, if I actually liked a guy, I wouldn't act like that. She only initiated contact 3 times? Short responses? Had sex with you on the first date (I have respect for myself, and if I actually like a guy I won't ruin it by fucking him right away) then again, that's probably just how she is. The situation sounds super sketcy and it sounds like she isn't that into you- she does like, however, that you have sex with her and take her to expensive places. You said she has a lot of money and lives high end? Well, those kind of girls are a bit stuck up and a lot of them are gold diggers and/or expect a lot from their men. She will expect everything from you... This is just my opinion from what I've seen and heard about in my life. Listen to everyone here and take her somewhere non expensive (picnic or a non expensive restaurant, but not something like subway of course lol)
Hey Foxyk...thanks. The initial reason I was confused and probably naive is...why would a good looking girl like her have sex on date 1 & 2 and then act distant, but yet still reply promptly to all texts and never flake on a date??? I'm used to having it one way or another...I'm either in or out and the girl will let it be known quickly. I walked away confused as hell.
Your welcome! Yeah it seems like a weird situation. It's always good to get another girl's advice... She probably didn't flake out on the date because she knew you were going to take her somewhere nice... Or because (I've even done this before to guys lol)...
-she is bored
-she isn't interested or is just kind of, and she feels bad so she goes with you
-she wants to hookup
I've hooked up with guys on the first date but didn't have sex... I guess it's just as bad, kind of
She could just be weird with relationships or doesn't know what she really wants
I forgot!! It's also very strange that she doesn't acknowledge your compliments ! If I like a guy, I always do and most girls in general find it flattering when a guy they like compliments them. Also, she doesn't show any interest? Doesn't flirt? Come on! Girls always flirt with guys they like unless they are super shy people!
FoxyK I left a lot of stuff out, didn't want to write a novel but here's some extra:
Date #2:
- I did some playful/tasteful banter alluding to our first sexual encounter (nothing explicit)...she started shaking her head no as if to say "We don't talk about it...we just do it...and never speak of it". I was like WHAAAAH?? It was weird.
- I think I'm starting to understand why no one proposes to her. Initially I would never have believed it...she's stunning and seems very polite and nice.
- We also had a discussion about honesty. She told me she would never tell someone she did not care for them/like them (work, friends, etc.). I told her that I would tastefully find a way to convey that I was just fine without their presence. She seemed mortified. So I asked her if she would tell me if she didn't like me? We were both a little drunk, I don't remember her response. We went back to her place and had sex, so I assumed she would tell me at some point.
- When we met on the Internet a year ago all her girlfriends knew about me...so she said back then. We took time away from contact until I got home and I contacted her 60 days later (we weren't in a relationship). Now that we've started dating, she told me straight up that none of her friends knew her and I were seeing each other. I have an athletic build (seriously) and I don't look 39, and have never had a problem getting a date for anything...what on earth could cause me to be a secret?
Honestly I'm preparing to NEXT this loon, but I don't want a repeat of this with another woman, so here I am on this site.
Haha yeah, no wonder she's never been proposed to... And the other stuff you're describing is weird too! If I was talking with a guy like that or dating one by the description you give me(I have a boyfriend, but if I was in that situation), I would brag to all my friends and talk to th about it! I've done it before and all my girlfriends and girls I'm not even close to do that! They brag when they are talking to a Hott guy or even a guy they like! Girls talk lol... Also she doesn't seem like an honest person from what you said there. And the first part u mentioned in this comment is odd too haha. Well Goodluck and hopefully u can figure it out!
Ps- maybe she didn't tell her friends about you because she was in a relationship at the time? Who knows
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She seems like she isn't that interested. As a female, if I actually liked a guy, I wouldn't act like that. She only initiated contact 3 times? Short responses? Had sex with you on the first date (I have respect for myself, and if I actually like a guy I won't ruin it by fucking him right away) then again, that's probably just how she is. The situation sounds super sketcy and it sounds like she isn't that into you- she does like, however, that you have sex with her and take her to expensive places. You said she has a lot of money and lives high end? Well, those kind of girls are a bit stuck up and a lot of them are gold diggers and/or expect a lot from their men. She will expect everything from you... This is just my opinion from what I've seen and heard about in my life. Listen to everyone here and take her somewhere non expensive (picnic or a non expensive restaurant, but not something like subway of course lol)
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Hey Foxyk...thanks. The initial reason I was confused and probably naive is...why would a good looking girl like her have sex on date 1 & 2 and then act distant, but yet still reply promptly to all texts and never flake on a date??? I'm used to having it one way or another...I'm either in or out and the girl will let it be known quickly. I walked away confused as hell.
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Your welcome! Yeah it seems like a weird situation. It's always good to get another girl's advice... She probably didn't flake out on the date because she knew you were going to take her somewhere nice... Or because (I've even done this before to guys lol)...
-she is bored
-she isn't interested or is just kind of, and she feels bad so she goes with you
-she wants to hookup
I've hooked up with guys on the first date but didn't have sex... I guess it's just as bad, kind of
She could just be weird with relationships or doesn't know what she really wants
I forgot!! It's also very strange that she doesn't acknowledge your compliments ! If I like a guy, I always do and most girls in general find it flattering when a guy they like compliments them. Also, she doesn't show any interest? Doesn't flirt? Come on! Girls always flirt with guys they like unless they are super shy people!
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FoxyK I left a lot of stuff out, didn't want to write a novel but here's some extra:
Date #2:
- I did some playful/tasteful banter alluding to our first sexual encounter (nothing explicit)...she started shaking her head no as if to say "We don't talk about it...we just do it...and never speak of it". I was like WHAAAAH?? It was weird.
- I think I'm starting to understand why no one proposes to her. Initially I would never have believed it...she's stunning and seems very polite and nice.
- We also had a discussion about honesty. She told me she would never tell someone she did not care for them/like them (work, friends, etc.). I told her that I would tastefully find a way to convey that I was just fine without their presence. She seemed mortified. So I asked her if she would tell me if she didn't like me? We were both a little drunk, I don't remember her response. We went back to her place and had sex, so I assumed she would tell me at some point.
- When we met on the Internet a year ago all her girlfriends knew about me...so she said back then. We took time away from contact until I got home and I contacted her 60 days later (we weren't in a relationship). Now that we've started dating, she told me straight up that none of her friends knew her and I were seeing each other. I have an athletic build (seriously) and I don't look 39, and have never had a problem getting a date for anything...what on earth could cause me to be a secret?
Honestly I'm preparing to NEXT this loon, but I don't want a repeat of this with another woman, so here I am on this site.
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Haha yeah, no wonder she's never been proposed to... And the other stuff you're describing is weird too! If I was talking with a guy like that or dating one by the description you give me(I have a boyfriend, but if I was in that situation), I would brag to all my friends and talk to th about it! I've done it before and all my girlfriends and girls I'm not even close to do that! They brag when they are talking to a Hott guy or even a guy they like! Girls talk lol... Also she doesn't seem like an honest person from what you said there. And the first part u mentioned in this comment is odd too haha. Well Goodluck and hopefully u can figure it out!
Ps- maybe she didn't tell her friends about you because she was in a relationship at the time? Who knows