Date the guy that cheated on his girlfriend with me

It sounds like you may have low self esteem & he knows this. Most guys will notice & if he's a jerk will use this to use you & take advantage of you. He's been pulling you around on a string boosting his ego because some "love sick" babe is waiting for him while he has his fun with whatever females he wants to.
I think he broke up with his ex because she actually stood up for herself & demanded respect, to be treated fairly and have a decent relationship from him or else she'd dump him-sounds like that's what happened-& good for her!
He knows he can get away with anything with you, especially when you kissed him while knowing he was dating someone else.

His ideal is to find another or more girls like you who have low self esteem & dont care that he's a jerk & will always be there for him-so he can date & use you all and go brag & laugh to his friends of how much of a "cool player, ladies man, egotistical jerk" he is.

My advice to you is love yourself, gain confidence and dont make a bad habit of letting men use you. When you do finally love yourself you will be able to make smart decisions about relationships & know who's the right guy for you.
Real men respect women.

If you always go for the jerks-while you may think your in love, they will think your stupid and easy.

My god, the stupidity of women never ceases to amaze me.

He's just trying to get into your pants. Cheat on him, then have a good laugh about it with the other girl.

Hes a dick! If he wont leave his other girl for you hes using you.

Sure it's normal to want to be with him. I'd it healthy or a good idea to actually do it? No way. He's a cheater. You'll be the next one he cheats on. Up to you to decide if that's what you deserve. But my advice would be that you made a mistake kissing him when you knew he had a girlfriend. Time to move on from that mistake.

To repeat, he'll cheat on you.

Normal ...sure. Wise.... No.

once a cheater, always a cheater.. ive done it myself... he will cheat on you, guaranteed!

I think the fact that he cheated on his previous girlfriend (even if it was you) is enough of a reason for you to ignore him, it shows he can't be trusted and he'll probably do the same to you too.

Why don't he just face his ex-girlfriend that he don't have a feeling for her before he cheat on her? I'm wondering how old are two of you? If both of you are still in high school, then you made a foolish choice because what he doing is very immature, and likely will do that again behind your back.

If two of you are adults and out of school... well that's another story, but still immoral nonetheless.

I don't know if I'd trust him...

Be careful.

Well if you want to date fine & its just dating but obviously you have mixed feelings even with that. And you should have.

This guy has a sense of entitlement (that he expects you to just wait & now be at his beck & call), is dishonest and is disrespectful.

Go out for dates & laughs if you feel like it - but he doesn't deserve your trust and love and will break your heart if you are foolish enough to want more.

He'll cheat on you, but if you're okay with that, then sure, why not?

this is me too.
twice.

i dont know if we're normal. =/