Date people that are not "in shape" to make me look more "in shape"

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I tend to go for guys that are not skinny, or a bit chubby. I prefer to do this because well it makes me look more in shape. I don't look that bad, just have a bit of fat on me. But for some reason I'm more comfortable/attracted to guys that are not at all in shape. It's not entirely based on me being insecure about being with a tone guy but those type of guys usually seem to care more about appearance. Hence my choice of mate. Is this normal? Who else does this?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    I was made for you then. I`ll bring you to Mc Donalds on our first date.

    Seriously, it`s your preference, your choice. If you`re happy, why not?

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago | pl

    I did this and now regret it! We have two kids together - he is really overweight and I am still as slim as when we met ... I have never been attracted to overweight men, and I still can't work out why I did it - other than to just look good.. I mean... WTF!!! Look closely at your motives and at what turns you on...:/

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    9 years ago | pl

    Thats pretty fucked up

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  • ImperfectDVM
    11 years ago | pl

    Wow, that's interesting. I'm attracted to guys you're talking about, because I just like them, regardless f my body. I have never heard of it like this.

    I think that you should work on your confidence,hun. That way you choose a guy out of desire-not out of feelings of inferiority?

    You're beautiful! Show it off! WOO

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  • sugarbunny772
    11 years ago | pl

    wow that' scary.I wouldn't really do that if i was you,i mean you never know how much you might regret it later.Have more confidence in yourself and don't care about appearances,they never last-but the heart/personality will forever.

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  • EveningOwl
    12 years ago | pl

    I hate this!!! it doesnt work my friend tryed to do it he failed!

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