Creepy or kinky?

Is it normal to want to have sex with someone that's asleep? Like I only do it if I ask them before hand so if they wake up it won't be an unwanted surprise or anything like that. But idk, something about them sleeping and possibly waking up well I pleasure them is a big turn on. Is this normal or just something that should be kept restrained?

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Based on 145 votes (84 yes)
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Comments ( 21 )
  • mystery7

    My ex used to wake me from a deep sleep in the morning with the most magnificent blow job (bless her). She'd swallow every drop of cum, it was breakfast for her.

    She never asked for my consent, so technically it was a kind of rape, but I always thought it was a great way to start the day.

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  • snarkygirl

    Creepy bordering on rape

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    • Couman

      Legally it's more than bordering, most likely. Rape laws usually have a strict "no unconscious people" rule. But as long as you get their permission ahead of time I don't see a problem myself.

      I was on a message board some years ago where one woman said she lets her husband do that. A bunch of people thought it was creepy, but just she saw it was a nice way to wake up.

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      • snarkygirl

        Well if you're married, sleep- sex is ok unless the woman refuses. Just some random person... No!

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  • bucho's_butt

    It's possible you may have a necrophilia fetish and don't know it. I've read about people who make their partner bathe in cold water and then have them lie down on the bed perfectly still and fuck them like that. I recommend you try that and then go from there.

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    • I don't think that's a thing I would ever do. Not even to stop then end of the world. I don't even touch the dead unless it's chicken.

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      • Vegetariansannoyme

        U don't THINK it's a thing u would ever do..... uh oh

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  • flyingnostalgia

    Thats only possible if the person is in coma.

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  • Thorolf

    All of the above?

    Many kinky things are creepy

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  • Thorolf

    As you said you got consent beforehand,there's not really anything wrong with that.

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  • Tealights

    It's not ideal, but it should be okay if the person agreed to allow you to fondle them in their sleep. Just always ask for permission beforehand.

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  • Malq

    I don't think it's creepy. I think it's normal but I'm quite submissive anyway. I want the guy to take me any time they want, in anyway, even if I disagree bc my body is theirs, not mine anymore. But that's just how I feel about it.

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  • Malq

    I don't think it's creepy. I think it's normal but I'm quite submissive anyway. I want the guy to take me any time they want, in anyway, even if I disagree bc my body is theirs, not mine anymore. But that's just how I feel about it.

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  • FJK_frm_AK25

    I'm ex fuck me wile I was asleep I had a erotic dream n woke up rite b4 I busted it was pretty bomb n nice treat wen unexpected

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  • I don't think it is creepy. Especially if you have permission beforehand. I honestly like being woken up out of my sleep to something like that. I would be a different story if you had done something to knock them out and did not have permission.

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  • Shmendan

    creepy...

    You would end up waking them up though...

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  • God_and_Satan

    there is like a lot of porn sites about this, so i think it is pretty normal...

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  • JessClifton

    i think sleep sex would be fun, i get more aroused while asleep than awake, just make sure they agree to it then i don't see a problem

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  • IMissMary

    I had a gf I used to bang all the time in the middle of the night. But she never stayed sleep. Basically if I got a hard on at any time I made her service me, I took it.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Unless you drug them, I'd say it's pretty much impossible. Either you've never done it or your partner is a pretty good actor, to make you think someone can stay asleep through penetration.

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    • Probably should have said that I don't do the penetraion, that I do oral and sometimes have them penetrait me, though rarely.

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