The only other person I have told in length about the situation is my therapist. She told me to firmly say "No, Thank you." Until he stops. If he still doesn't she said that I can make a complaint to him to the store's management. She says that I have a lot of power in the situation since I am a customer. Stores thrive and can fail by their customers. If it effects their customer's they'll want to do something about it. The thing is is that their management/business ethic seems to be a little flawed. It's hard to get a hold of the people in charge that I like at the store. They also don't seem to have a email for complaints. She doubts that this guy will be able to rape me in that store, but she did say that I could try staying close to the relative who accompanies me there.
I've always been androgynous, but never all of the way. I don't wear purses. I have been thinking about completely switching my clothing to the men's aisle. Hopefully, that will deter him? I am not even sure if there are extreme security measure at that store, like security cameras.
I haven't seen him for about 4 times now, but it places me at an even more awkward situation. I was hoping that he had been fired or gotten sick. If it turns out that he's only working on certain days, if I ask and they tell him and he finds out it was me, he might be even more convinced about the chance of love. O_O The store has a tendency to randomly transfer employees so, there's always going to be the anxiety of: What if I see this guy again?
Creepy man is making me physically ill, IIN?
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The only other person I have told in length about the situation is my therapist. She told me to firmly say "No, Thank you." Until he stops. If he still doesn't she said that I can make a complaint to him to the store's management. She says that I have a lot of power in the situation since I am a customer. Stores thrive and can fail by their customers. If it effects their customer's they'll want to do something about it. The thing is is that their management/business ethic seems to be a little flawed. It's hard to get a hold of the people in charge that I like at the store. They also don't seem to have a email for complaints. She doubts that this guy will be able to rape me in that store, but she did say that I could try staying close to the relative who accompanies me there.
I've always been androgynous, but never all of the way. I don't wear purses. I have been thinking about completely switching my clothing to the men's aisle. Hopefully, that will deter him? I am not even sure if there are extreme security measure at that store, like security cameras.
I haven't seen him for about 4 times now, but it places me at an even more awkward situation. I was hoping that he had been fired or gotten sick. If it turns out that he's only working on certain days, if I ask and they tell him and he finds out it was me, he might be even more convinced about the chance of love. O_O The store has a tendency to randomly transfer employees so, there's always going to be the anxiety of: What if I see this guy again?