Craving sex then hating the act

72% Normal
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First off, I'm a woman and I love sex; I fantasise about it daily and if I don't get any I get very grumpy.
And when I'm with my boyfriend, I can barely think of anything else than wanting sex (Luckily he has the same sexual appetite). But when we finally get down to the deed, after about 10 minutes I start to hate it and wish it would stop. But he won't as he wants me to be happy and I feel horrible if I made him stop so i jst put up with it.
I feel I cant tell him because he won't understand- probably due to not really understanding why myself.
All I know is it begins to feel uncomfortable and I don't get as much satisfaction from it as I expect to- but then the next day I crave it again.
I've only had one sexual partner before, whos performance was lets say... Quick - I'm not sure if that has anything to do with it...
Is this normal at all?

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72% Normal
Based on 76 votes (55 yes)
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  • binkylover
    14 years ago

    This happens to me too! Not including foreplay I like the actual sex part to be 15 minutes or less. I'm with a guy who I lasts FOREVER. Literally he lasts over an hour. And I feel like I'm wasting his talent because I know a lot of women would love to have it. But I did complain to a girl friend about it and she said she felt similarly about the length of sex, so I don't think it's all that uncommon.

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    • I-Wish-BJo-Was-My_Sister
      11 years ago

      Hey my GF says she loves me cause if she asks I can last for as long as she wants or as short as she want's but yeah she likes bringing girls home for three ways but its a little okay with me but uh yeah if you ever want sex then give me a call i'd put my number but a few people have called and started to say i'm your sister i'm your sister and screaming they want my cock and stuff but what ever the're freaks i'm not i'm great message me on my pole its: Can you comment on this? just search it bye!

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  • NormalityMan
    14 years ago

    Normal, don't worry. Too bad I'm not your BF, I am like a kaumasutra. A good 10 minutes without finishing is fine. Maybe your boyfreind will understand if you say you just want a quick one. He probably would. I'm sure daily sex is awesome for him even if it's just 10 minutes. Don't have sex more than you want too though. After it stops feeling great, just say you feel like stopping. Then cuddle for 5 minutes and move on

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    ARE YOU GAY SEX IS FUCKING MARVELOUS

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  • bimbobombshell
    12 years ago

    I'm the same! the guy I'm with at the moment last an hour at least and im over in after 20 minutes :/

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  • takeiteasy12
    13 years ago

    What? Wow

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    men can cum in 30seconds if they want to. tell him you like you sex fast in general, won't say no to please his gal

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  • combatgal856
    13 years ago

    You need to find the reason behind it, perhaps if you think to yourself what is it that is uncomfortable, and how can you change it. Do you feel emotionally close to your bf? How about trust. Perhaps talking to him may help, but try and have ideas of why you may feel this way first, because if you tell him about it he is probably going to want to know why too.

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  • ikaboo
    13 years ago

    you need a good man

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  • florist
    13 years ago

    maybe u're not sexually attracted to ur bf!

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  • negra18soccer
    14 years ago

    Maybe it's him your bored of:(
    And u just dnt want to face it.
    Trust me! I've been in your situation...

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  • sokosquare
    14 years ago

    THATS NEW... BUT AGAIN.. IF HE LOVES YOU HE WILL UNDERSTAND. I AM MARRIED AND I HAVE SEX TWICE A WEEK SO I WISH I WERE YOUR MAN...

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  • joelsmo
    13 years ago

    go to a therapist and stop torturing the poor guy, it must be horribe

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