Coworker complains and whines if i don’t talk to him

My coworker and I used to talk semi often but I secretly can’t fucking stand talking to him. I am actually usually a very quiet independent person, I’ve even told him this, but still whenever I’m quiet like I’d like to be he acts super passive aggressive and rude towards me as if I’ve changed or am acting cold. I’ve been more quiet the past few days but all day today he’s been trying to pick fights with me asking me angrily “what’s you’re problem?!!” “Why do you hate me!!!” I honestly hate talking to him so much I’m thinking about quitting. I’m a cook with him at a restaraunt. He’s offended because he’s told me things he’s never told anybody else. (And I guess that made him feel closer to me?) But we’re not close and that’s only happened because he’ll randomly come up to me and tell me something personal and cry about it. I never asked for this.