Is there a reason you won't tell them "no thanks"?
I mean granted if they constantly try to talk to you when you always ignore it may be that they aren't getting the hint.
but if it's just random like once in a while, and if they showed up where you work simply because they were in the area... it may not be as horrible as you make it out to be
That's the ting, they live over an hour or so away and it's inconvenient for them to show up, plus they don't have a license, so it's not as if it's an easy, normal thing to do.
in light of that you perhaps should let them know in simple terms - don't just ignore them and hope they figure it out, tell them plainly. i mean be polite but make it clear.
if they continue ... then consider more official means such as blocking, contacting the police etc
This person is NO good. We hung out as a group of friends but things quickly went downhill, they and the friends were always in trouble, doing drugs, scamming, and things like that and I didn't want to be involved. This particular person isn't soooo bad, but I can't associate with any of those people, I don't need or want that trouble. This person is the type who will do anything to impress friends, or be the center of attention, and is well known by the police so even to just be seen with them, it's trouble for me even though I'm not doing anything wrong. I don't want to be associated with them, period.
If you added that to your description I guarantee the responses would have been quite different lol. The next question is...are you scared of him/her and what he might do? If you aren't tell him to his face...otherwise ignore him until he forgets you
Continue to ignore, or tell them off?
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Is there a reason you won't tell them "no thanks"?
I mean granted if they constantly try to talk to you when you always ignore it may be that they aren't getting the hint.
but if it's just random like once in a while, and if they showed up where you work simply because they were in the area... it may not be as horrible as you make it out to be
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That's the ting, they live over an hour or so away and it's inconvenient for them to show up, plus they don't have a license, so it's not as if it's an easy, normal thing to do.
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that's a lot of effort to come see you...
in light of that you perhaps should let them know in simple terms - don't just ignore them and hope they figure it out, tell them plainly. i mean be polite but make it clear.
if they continue ... then consider more official means such as blocking, contacting the police etc
Why don't you like that person (or them) any more? Have you moved up the social ladder?
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This person is NO good. We hung out as a group of friends but things quickly went downhill, they and the friends were always in trouble, doing drugs, scamming, and things like that and I didn't want to be involved. This particular person isn't soooo bad, but I can't associate with any of those people, I don't need or want that trouble. This person is the type who will do anything to impress friends, or be the center of attention, and is well known by the police so even to just be seen with them, it's trouble for me even though I'm not doing anything wrong. I don't want to be associated with them, period.
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If you added that to your description I guarantee the responses would have been quite different lol. The next question is...are you scared of him/her and what he might do? If you aren't tell him to his face...otherwise ignore him until he forgets you