But her butt is indeed amazing, madam. If a woman can compliment me on my beards, why can't I do the same on her butt. I think being disrespectful would be me calling her a bitch, or a ho.
A beard isn’t sexual. You’re pretty much a stranger to that woman. Saying she has a nice butt is on the same level as someone you hardly know publicly telling you that you have a nice scrotum. And you chose to tell her when no one else is around, that comes off as suspicious and rapey.
Please make me understand how anyone i hardly know would notice the morphology of my scrotum and publicly tell me I have a nice scrotum when I'm not walking around nude. Telling her when people are around would have made her certainly uncomfortable, drawing everyone present in the office room to her said body part. Besides, I wasn't sure how she would react to such mass scrutiny of her physical beauty. And how is being on an office balcony situationally rapey, if you're insinuating I'm a rapist? I mean, you have people inside the office work area looking at you through the glass windows. Conclusively, I'm failing to see the point you're trying to make.
Nobody called you a rapist, I meant, as a woman myself, that your ‘compliment’ might have made her feel like she could be in potential danger. I don’t know the layout of your building and you didn’t specify where you told her about her butt, you made it sound like you were alone. My point is don’t be creep, it’s not a comment you should be making to a stranger no matter where you are at. How can you not see how your comment would make a woman uneasy? You’re either incredibly ignorant and nitpicky or purposefully misunderstanding and trying to start a fight. If the latter, why do bother even asking the initial question if you aren’t going to listen to people and try to spin things so you are the one in the right?
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But her butt is indeed amazing, madam. If a woman can compliment me on my beards, why can't I do the same on her butt. I think being disrespectful would be me calling her a bitch, or a ho.
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A beard isn’t sexual. You’re pretty much a stranger to that woman. Saying she has a nice butt is on the same level as someone you hardly know publicly telling you that you have a nice scrotum. And you chose to tell her when no one else is around, that comes off as suspicious and rapey.
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Please make me understand how anyone i hardly know would notice the morphology of my scrotum and publicly tell me I have a nice scrotum when I'm not walking around nude. Telling her when people are around would have made her certainly uncomfortable, drawing everyone present in the office room to her said body part. Besides, I wasn't sure how she would react to such mass scrutiny of her physical beauty. And how is being on an office balcony situationally rapey, if you're insinuating I'm a rapist? I mean, you have people inside the office work area looking at you through the glass windows. Conclusively, I'm failing to see the point you're trying to make.
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Telling someone you hardly know that she has a nice ass can be creepy. What's wrong with saying something like, "you have nice eyes", instead?
Nobody called you a rapist, I meant, as a woman myself, that your ‘compliment’ might have made her feel like she could be in potential danger. I don’t know the layout of your building and you didn’t specify where you told her about her butt, you made it sound like you were alone. My point is don’t be creep, it’s not a comment you should be making to a stranger no matter where you are at. How can you not see how your comment would make a woman uneasy? You’re either incredibly ignorant and nitpicky or purposefully misunderstanding and trying to start a fight. If the latter, why do bother even asking the initial question if you aren’t going to listen to people and try to spin things so you are the one in the right?
It's objectifying, and sexualizing.