He's a loser and you've moved on. Line up a place to live, like your own cheap apartment, your parents, a friend's house temporary.. etc. and move out one day when he's gone, I know you say he doesn't like going in public but he must have to leave the house SOMETIME. Even if he's only gone a few hours, get some friends to get as much crap out as possible.
Then break up with him through phone or note seeing as he could get violent. Let the landlord know whats going on or wait to break up when the lease is up. Do not tell him where you're going and change your contact information as soon as you're out. You sticking around and babying him is NOT helping him grow and and is going to give you ulcers.
If he's not violent then just tell him you're going to move out and actually DO IT. Then drop off all contact. You staying after he's gotten extremely jealous and punched walls is basically giving him permission to always act that way. If you pay his bills and help pay for pot he will never learn to grow up and deal with reality. You already know what you have to do, now you need to find support and grow some balls to get it done.
Chooses weed over me. IIN?
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He's a loser and you've moved on. Line up a place to live, like your own cheap apartment, your parents, a friend's house temporary.. etc. and move out one day when he's gone, I know you say he doesn't like going in public but he must have to leave the house SOMETIME. Even if he's only gone a few hours, get some friends to get as much crap out as possible.
Then break up with him through phone or note seeing as he could get violent. Let the landlord know whats going on or wait to break up when the lease is up. Do not tell him where you're going and change your contact information as soon as you're out. You sticking around and babying him is NOT helping him grow and and is going to give you ulcers.
If he's not violent then just tell him you're going to move out and actually DO IT. Then drop off all contact. You staying after he's gotten extremely jealous and punched walls is basically giving him permission to always act that way. If you pay his bills and help pay for pot he will never learn to grow up and deal with reality. You already know what you have to do, now you need to find support and grow some balls to get it done.