It depends on your priorities... People for whom sex is a priority can always find time for sex - even if that means a lack of sleep and little or no time for other hobbies and activities such as eating, going out with friends etc. From this point of view not enough time for sex or a difficulty to find time for it seems to be an excuse when people want to claim that they are totally HYPERsexual and that their libido is HIGH as hell but "somehow" they can´t have sex so often because "somehow" they can´t find time for it.
Of course, people can personally prefer a sexual frequency that is not listed in the poll or that changes depending on their mood but it doesn´t matter because the task is not to indicate this but to choose a partner from the list who would be better for you in this respect (all other things being equal).
Ok - and what would you do if your long-term partner literally NEEDED to have sex twice a day EVERY day and you didn´t feel like having sex sometimes (because it depends on your mood, hormones and what you are doing during the week)?
Thanks for your answer :) I just wanted to know if your poll choice "twice a day" corresponds to your real preferences (when it comes to the libido of your long term mate). The poll was exactly about that - choosing a long term partner with a certain level of sexual desire (as stated in the poll description "I would prefer if my long-term partner wanted to have sex...").
I chose what would be ideal in an ideal situation. However, my situation is far from ideal. Wanting and needing are two different things. I want to have sex twice a day, but not doing so won't cause me any harm as would depriving myself of a need.
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Depends.
Sometimes twice a day, sometimes once every other day, depends on my mood, hormones and what I am doing during the week.
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Exactly! sometimes it's finding the time isn't it. x
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It depends on your priorities... People for whom sex is a priority can always find time for sex - even if that means a lack of sleep and little or no time for other hobbies and activities such as eating, going out with friends etc. From this point of view not enough time for sex or a difficulty to find time for it seems to be an excuse when people want to claim that they are totally HYPERsexual and that their libido is HIGH as hell but "somehow" they can´t have sex so often because "somehow" they can´t find time for it.
Of course, people can personally prefer a sexual frequency that is not listed in the poll or that changes depending on their mood but it doesn´t matter because the task is not to indicate this but to choose a partner from the list who would be better for you in this respect (all other things being equal).
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Thanks for the heads up but I did before making this post.
I chose twice a day.
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Ok - and what would you do if your long-term partner literally NEEDED to have sex twice a day EVERY day and you didn´t feel like having sex sometimes (because it depends on your mood, hormones and what you are doing during the week)?
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Well that wasn't the subject of the poll but I will go for it.
I would lose my fucking mind. I probably would not choose a long term mate that would have such sexual issues.
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Thanks for your answer :) I just wanted to know if your poll choice "twice a day" corresponds to your real preferences (when it comes to the libido of your long term mate). The poll was exactly about that - choosing a long term partner with a certain level of sexual desire (as stated in the poll description "I would prefer if my long-term partner wanted to have sex...").
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I chose what would be ideal in an ideal situation. However, my situation is far from ideal. Wanting and needing are two different things. I want to have sex twice a day, but not doing so won't cause me any harm as would depriving myself of a need.