Childish personality, iin

I think I have a weird personality. I usually think a lot, I have always been a thinker and I have been known as the quiet girl throughout primary and secondary school. In college I started finding myself and I feel childish, I ask many questions and I have a few 'blond' moments which I get crtisized on. I like jumping about when I get excited (sometimes for no reason).

My ex said I appear to have a mind of a child and it is genuine, which freaked me out. I have a normal life (ishh, or else I wouldn't be on this site) I get good grades, have a few hobbies I do, but I am worried I will be like a child forever.

Is this something to worry about?
I am 18 by the way

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  • sparrowfeed

    this sounds stupid.

    no offense.

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    • Oasis808

      but your intent was to offend when you said "this sounds stupid"....

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  • Mersaphe

    This is totally normal and it's okay for people to have different personalities

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  • Oasis808

    What one may perceive as childish may be seen as mature to another. I think everyone has tendencies to be childish or immature in some way. That's just life XD

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  • Me too. I feel like i look like a kid at times and at other times I dont.

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  • lulz08

    I'm exactly like you which makes me feel socially awkward at times :P

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  • hotchickie81

    I do the same... but I know I'm a kid at heart! :)

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  • Somone

    it's not normal it's perfect! in fact you should pray to keep that your hole life! i wish I do.. (but i'll probably will anyway)

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  • BUGABOO-666-

    You're only 18-years-old! It's way too early to be concerned about slightly immature habits and whatnot. If anything, I wish I were less mature than I am now at 18, lol.

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  • paradoxinsoxs

    Don't worry about- people who lose there childish behavior in life are the real failures- don't grow up

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  • Golden

    I too can be a bit child like sometimes. I wouldn't say childish because that implies immaturity, which is not the feeling I get from what I read about you and I know I'm not immature (at least not often ;) One of my ex boyfriends said that my child like moments were one of his favorite things about me. He used to love it when he would give me a gift or treat (even if it was a simple one like my favorite cookies) and I would hug and kiss him and skip around him all happy. I know that sounds really dumb but one day he just smiled huge and was like: "I've been waiting all day for you to do that. I couldn't wait to give you your surprise!" He and my friends and family think it's real cute when I rub my eyes because they say I do it like a little girl (with my fists). Anyway, I think you are very normal and a lot of people enjoy others who have a child like air about them. It usually brings about a positive atmosphere!

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  • DannyKanes

    Haha totally normal and nothing to worry about, besides what's the point of being grown up if you can't be childish sometimes? :-)

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    Really? Sounds annoying as hell, there's no reason to be so grossly cheery about anything. I personally hope that reality hits you like a train leaving behind that childlike stupidity.

    If people said you had a mind like a child at your age most people would consider you mentally retarded. That would also technically mean that your ex was a pedophile. Maybe you should consider dating someone like rain man.

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    • Somone

      that's stupid! that doesn't mean she's retarded! and it doesn't mean her ex was a pedofile!i mean she never said that she wasn't physically developed and that's what attracts pedofiless!! u don't know anything do you?? btw having a childish personality doesn't mean she alway acts like a child! it only means that she has her childish moments and that she sees life in a more joyfull way...

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