"Should I keep my mouth shut, or spill the beans and cause my wife some severe hurt just to make myself feel better?"
That's quite an interesting statement.
That you're thinking about how to just make yourself feel better.
That's what got you into the mess to begin with - by putting what made you feel good first and putting your marriage second.
I'm not saying "don't tell them" but rather... consider your motives. Maybe it's time to stop siding with "what makes me feel good" and start considering "what will improve my relationship" and "how do I put my vows first"?
Cheating was fun. But now what?
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"Should I keep my mouth shut, or spill the beans and cause my wife some severe hurt just to make myself feel better?"
That's quite an interesting statement.
That you're thinking about how to just make yourself feel better.
That's what got you into the mess to begin with - by putting what made you feel good first and putting your marriage second.
I'm not saying "don't tell them" but rather... consider your motives. Maybe it's time to stop siding with "what makes me feel good" and start considering "what will improve my relationship" and "how do I put my vows first"?