Cheating addiction

I haven't cheating too much, but heres my problem. I'm addicted to the "newness" of relationships. I love when I just meet a girl, as her out, and the thrill of the first kiss is unrivlad. I usually don't get carried into sex, more or less a few dates, some petting and kissing. It never lasts very long, but long enough for my fix. I usually feel bad for a little while, but the feeling fades, and I jsutify it with my yearning for newness. Newness is hard to find when your with someone for years. At least the newness thats coupled with buttflies in the stomach.

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  • emmaie892000

    It sounds like you haven't found someone that you've truly been in love with. But you shouldn't cheat, just end things. And maybe not make things too serious too fast if you know you may end it soon.

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  • Kat444

    It's normal to enjoy the newness of a relationship and the butterflies you get from doing something physical with someone for the first time. But if you keep this up, your chances of finding someone willing to stay with you for the long run will continually decrease. You have to decide if it's worth it.

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  • Ferrets

    Teehee, buttflies. x3

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  • AbnormalAnonymous

    You don't have to be labelled as a gf and bf. Maybe call it dating instead?

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  • Interesting. Thanks - I'd kinda forgotten about the thrill of new relationships. Been in one a looong time - which has other benefits. Enjoy that stage of life.

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