Caught feelings, don’t know what to do.

I met this guy on tinder who lives about 5 hours away from me. At first we got to know each other and the conversations were pretty decent. Talking about 3 months now.

Anyways, all we ever do anymore is sext over snap chat. Weird for me because usually i wouldn’t do something like this but i’ve found it enjoyable. We just help each other get off lmao, only made small talk a handful of times recently.

But my dumb ass caught “feelings” as much as you can for a guy you don’t know. Since i know deep down he has no interest besides seeing my nudes i figure i need to cut it off. Everywhere i look for advice people are saying ghosting is fucked up to do to anybody. But i don’t know how to communicate with him that i’m not gonna do what it is we’re doing anymore... i guess my question is, would it be fucked up to ghost this man? Do i just start ignoring him and see what happens? Then again i don’t wanna see his snap story’s because he is really cute and idk how tf i caught feelings.

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  • right now you an object to him. that nigga ain't even trying to see how's you. you just his hoe now and that ain't right.
    we as a society need to change da way we think and pussayfoot about situations that are clearly stressful to oneself yo.
    that's what's up

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  • never ghost someone. That shit is cruel and fucked up. Own your business and talk to him. Dont be a piece of shit

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    • Its pretty selfish and cold to ghost, but sometimes its the only way to get toxic or clingy people out of your life. Ive been there

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      • I've met some fucked up people but never so fucked up I can't say even by text hey this 8snt working im sorry but bye. If you ghost you'll always be a piece of shit in my eyes

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  • I think you should just take you time in opening in snaps , let him think your not that interested anymore , and when u do open them , ingnore most of them ,, if he notices and questions you , then maybe there’s something there , till then your free to do whatever you like

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  • Sounds like a Gemini lol

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  • just let him know whats going on, and how you really feel. You never know he might be down to seeing where things go and if not, its better to let him know before just disappearing.

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