First, it sounds like neither of you are looking for a mere hook-up, and it hasn't even been a week since you first contacted the woman. Cool your jets, bro.
Other than that, I agree with Styro: it sounds like she's someone who wants to be pursued. Very old fashioned, I suppose, but there it is...
And, yeah, ask if you can meet the woman for a coffee or something so you can figure out if there's the potential for something.
What u give is perhaps good advice....for some. I however, refuse to play some petty childish game of “pursuit” for two reasons....#1. We aren’t in grade school anymore & #2. Why should I waste my valuable time pursuing this chick when I don’t even know if it would work out anyway & plus, I could be using my time more wisely by chatting with the ones I know are interested & will talk?? If she was the last chick on earth then just maybe....Idk who the fuck some women think they are.
When I was single and using internet dating sites (about 12 years ago), I encountered a few women who seemed to be playing games. I was single because my wife had died about six months before after a very long terminal illness, and my mindset was definitely "life's too fucking short for pissing about". When I broke off my connection to the women I thought were playing games, I did so with a message very politely explaining why I was doing so; not criticising them, just telling them my perspective of what had gone on between us, and why I wasn't willing to tolerate that. That wasn't well-received by a couple, but I didn't care. I would have wanted feed-back about what had gone wrong if our positions had been reversed, so I wanted to give them some.
You seem to have spent quite a bit of time talking to this woman, so you must feel some sort of mutual attraction. Maybe the time you've invested so far would justify you explaining to her - politely - how you're feeling.
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First, it sounds like neither of you are looking for a mere hook-up, and it hasn't even been a week since you first contacted the woman. Cool your jets, bro.
Other than that, I agree with Styro: it sounds like she's someone who wants to be pursued. Very old fashioned, I suppose, but there it is...
And, yeah, ask if you can meet the woman for a coffee or something so you can figure out if there's the potential for something.
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What u give is perhaps good advice....for some. I however, refuse to play some petty childish game of “pursuit” for two reasons....#1. We aren’t in grade school anymore & #2. Why should I waste my valuable time pursuing this chick when I don’t even know if it would work out anyway & plus, I could be using my time more wisely by chatting with the ones I know are interested & will talk?? If she was the last chick on earth then just maybe....Idk who the fuck some women think they are.
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Totally understand your point of view.
I detest game-playing too.
When I was single and using internet dating sites (about 12 years ago), I encountered a few women who seemed to be playing games. I was single because my wife had died about six months before after a very long terminal illness, and my mindset was definitely "life's too fucking short for pissing about". When I broke off my connection to the women I thought were playing games, I did so with a message very politely explaining why I was doing so; not criticising them, just telling them my perspective of what had gone on between us, and why I wasn't willing to tolerate that. That wasn't well-received by a couple, but I didn't care. I would have wanted feed-back about what had gone wrong if our positions had been reversed, so I wanted to give them some.
You seem to have spent quite a bit of time talking to this woman, so you must feel some sort of mutual attraction. Maybe the time you've invested so far would justify you explaining to her - politely - how you're feeling.