Its no doubt that having expirienced sex with someone before means they can push your 'buttons' better, and that helps. But to me it seems like that benefit is offset by the fact that having sex with someone new can bring a type of novelty that is enjoyable. If you have sex with many diffetent types, you expirience more. Some people are better at oral than others or make more arousong sounds, some people love anal and some don't, some people love kinky shit some don't, and some are just attractive in different ways that can help turn you on more. For people who love multiple aspects of sex, having multiple partners and more casual sex can allow you opportunities to have a different expirience each time.
And when I say people like you, I mean some people in my life who look down on me for having casual sex, and also some other hooligans in the comment section.
I don't know why I've been lumped in with people who look down on you - please refer to the opening line of my initial comment. In my experience people are more likely to look down on those who don't engage in casual sex because our society encourages casual sex so much. So I'm surprised to hear you feel that so many people are looking down on you for it.
I really don't care whether or not you engage in casual sex. It was only being talked about because you specifically asked. I can see you've taken offence to a lot of the comments here. I'm really not sure what you want?
You said earlier that sex is less pleasurble with strangers, and I disagree with that. It CAN be, and for SOME people it may always be, but stating it like that with a blanket statment is just not fair. Sex can definetly be better with a stranger, for reasons I eluded to in my earlier reply.
I feel like people personally don't like it, but they are short sighted and say that it is dumb pointless or empty. I say people should have casual sex more often and not judge people for doing so regularly. Most people in the comments don't sound like they agree, even though they are not very direct.
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Its no doubt that having expirienced sex with someone before means they can push your 'buttons' better, and that helps. But to me it seems like that benefit is offset by the fact that having sex with someone new can bring a type of novelty that is enjoyable. If you have sex with many diffetent types, you expirience more. Some people are better at oral than others or make more arousong sounds, some people love anal and some don't, some people love kinky shit some don't, and some are just attractive in different ways that can help turn you on more. For people who love multiple aspects of sex, having multiple partners and more casual sex can allow you opportunities to have a different expirience each time.
And when I say people like you, I mean some people in my life who look down on me for having casual sex, and also some other hooligans in the comment section.
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I don't know why I've been lumped in with people who look down on you - please refer to the opening line of my initial comment. In my experience people are more likely to look down on those who don't engage in casual sex because our society encourages casual sex so much. So I'm surprised to hear you feel that so many people are looking down on you for it.
I really don't care whether or not you engage in casual sex. It was only being talked about because you specifically asked. I can see you've taken offence to a lot of the comments here. I'm really not sure what you want?
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You said earlier that sex is less pleasurble with strangers, and I disagree with that. It CAN be, and for SOME people it may always be, but stating it like that with a blanket statment is just not fair. Sex can definetly be better with a stranger, for reasons I eluded to in my earlier reply.
I feel like people personally don't like it, but they are short sighted and say that it is dumb pointless or empty. I say people should have casual sex more often and not judge people for doing so regularly. Most people in the comments don't sound like they agree, even though they are not very direct.
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Ok, so go and have your casual sex then and stop worrying so much about what everyone else thinks of you. Life is too short for that. Have fun!
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Thank you sir! I'm glad you commented!
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I am a she-sir, but no problem, you are most welcome.