Casual sex is GREAT... Change my mind

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  • Nothing wrong with it, if you have a high enough sex drive then it's for you. Some prefer love over sex though - attracted by personality more than body, and prefer the emotional connection to go along with sex.

    I never noticed any stigma against casual sex, usually the opposite - it's glorified as you're supposed to have as much sex as you can, or else you're seen as a loser (if male) or a prude (if female).

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    • Great responss! Casual sex is great for those with higher sex drives like myself. I would disagree however, that there is no stigma against it. I have had a surprising amount of shade cast on me for it. And other people in the comments agree there is a stigma to it. Do you really think there is no stigma or have you just not really noticed?

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      • I guess casual sex isn’t brought up a lot, but Ive definitely heard guys bragging about how much they have sex, especially in the form of hook ups. It’s seen as an accomplishment. Also on tv shows and movies if a guy hasn’t had sex in even a couple months, he is implied to be a weirdo. Sometimes it applies for women too, but personally I think its less risk for guys and thus more enjoyable.

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        • Yeah, it seems like in some circles and niches of society, casual sex is well accepted. But there are still plenty of areas where people stigmatize it. People will tell me "don't you have something better to do?" or "That is inmoral" and shit like that. It just makes me pissed that people even care about my sex life at all. But I'm sure it is not seen that way everywhere you go.

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