I don't think it's bad but personally I find it very unfulfilling and meaningless. Kind of immature. It's this huge effort and amount of time put in to trying to make it happen for what is essentially 10-15 minutes of pleasure. Half the time it's disappointing. There's also the worrying after because you may have picked up an STD and you won't know until you go get checked again. It's just not worth it in my opinion. I think as you get older you mature and realise that you actually want more than just a quick fix. If I cannot find something more I'd sooner go without these days. There's nothing better sexually than being with someone who actually really cares about you and isn't just in it for themselves which is what casual sex is all about. Casual sex is basically just using another person as a masturbation device.
I don't like you saying its immature. What if people just want sex without the relationship strings attached? Also, saying its used as a masturbation device is just wrong, look up masterbation.
Ok so you don't like my opinion. Such is life. You don't get to like everything people say. If people want sex without strings they can go ahead and fuck till they're blue in the face for all I care. Nobody is stopping them. This is just my personal view. Dude I'm no innocent. I've played the field big time but what im saying is that as you get older ie more mature you realise that you just don't want that kind of empty sex anymore. It's just how it is. You want connection.
I'm well aware of what masturbation is without looking it up thanks. It can be done with a device. Casual sex to me is not much different. The two people don't care about each other at all usually. They each just want to get off and they each just use the other to reach that end.
I have heard it before that people stop liking casual sex after a while, and it makes sense. But I think more people stop because they have kind of gotten their fill, more so than they just realizing "wow, this is immature" and stopping because of that. I know it is not everyone's cup of tea, but still people seem to look down on people who choose this different style of sex life. And casual sex doesn't always mean you have no feelings for someone, although that certainly happens.
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I don't think it's bad but personally I find it very unfulfilling and meaningless. Kind of immature. It's this huge effort and amount of time put in to trying to make it happen for what is essentially 10-15 minutes of pleasure. Half the time it's disappointing. There's also the worrying after because you may have picked up an STD and you won't know until you go get checked again. It's just not worth it in my opinion. I think as you get older you mature and realise that you actually want more than just a quick fix. If I cannot find something more I'd sooner go without these days. There's nothing better sexually than being with someone who actually really cares about you and isn't just in it for themselves which is what casual sex is all about. Casual sex is basically just using another person as a masturbation device.
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I don't like you saying its immature. What if people just want sex without the relationship strings attached? Also, saying its used as a masturbation device is just wrong, look up masterbation.
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Ok so you don't like my opinion. Such is life. You don't get to like everything people say. If people want sex without strings they can go ahead and fuck till they're blue in the face for all I care. Nobody is stopping them. This is just my personal view. Dude I'm no innocent. I've played the field big time but what im saying is that as you get older ie more mature you realise that you just don't want that kind of empty sex anymore. It's just how it is. You want connection.
I'm well aware of what masturbation is without looking it up thanks. It can be done with a device. Casual sex to me is not much different. The two people don't care about each other at all usually. They each just want to get off and they each just use the other to reach that end.
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I have heard it before that people stop liking casual sex after a while, and it makes sense. But I think more people stop because they have kind of gotten their fill, more so than they just realizing "wow, this is immature" and stopping because of that. I know it is not everyone's cup of tea, but still people seem to look down on people who choose this different style of sex life. And casual sex doesn't always mean you have no feelings for someone, although that certainly happens.