Cant make up her mind

shove a sword up her ass

Ok now what the hell did you lie about? Jesus Christ I still have no idea. Anyways, for the most part from my stand point you have no chance beating out this older dude. Girls will always pic the older guy just has long as he shows her intrest so give up on that part, and I'm sure hes already getting Bj's from her so dont let your heart get broke if you find out. Her friends hate you so that makes it even worse, they are the ones who see her all the time and talk to her on the phone at night and they are going to fill her ear with whatever they want about you so your screwed buddy. My advice, tell her off and stop being so nice to her just be a dick and you got a good chance that one day she will come crawling back to you. Good luck.

u need a sensative chick!!! trust me ima chick

awwww...i think its cute..
you need to regain trust from her friends which seems like it will take forever...trust meeh been there done that!!!hahah...and your sweet for letting her decide and not disrespecting her!!!!we need more guys like that...to get to dah point i think you shouldn't have to wait that long because you dnt want to wait that long and plus you'll pass up a good opportunity when that right person comes and you'll regret it..i cant decide for you but if it was me in your position i would move on.
trust meeh its hard to let go and stop thinking of that person but time will pass and youll learn to let go!!!
so hope all goes well!!

Get a tape recorder and record her friends talking shit. Then go to the guy who she is apparently flirting with and record what he thinks of her. If he's a total dick then show your potential girlfriend the tape. This way it prevents her friends from getting her into trouble with the wrong sort of guys who will take advantage of her it will forever associate those friends with the horrible boyfriend making it your job to be her emotional support which will either make her your girlfriend or her best friend from which relationships can develope further. But don't just be looking to get some pussy or it will blow up in your face I call you a dick and we all laugh at you.

your on about respect and that but are you pushing her for an anwser? it can be tough choosing who you want to date and she will be reling on her friends opinion a lot because that's what we do! if you show her friends no respect then she won't like you. make some sort of really sweet gesture or some thing in front of both of your friends and then she may start to like you but most girls no the rule; once a liar allways a liar. no matter what happens chances are she'll find it hard to trust you

Yeah, Chris pretty much said it all here. This whole scenario sounds so familiar to me -- I see this sort of thing with my youngest daughter and her friends all the time. The little wenches constantly serve as judge and jury to their friends' boyfriends, and it can all get damned nasty.

The thing is, she has them whispering in one ear, and the older guy whispering in the other. Your voice is just a tiny little squeak in the distance. I think the fact that you lied to her is probably the least of the obstacles and this is likely just being used as an excuse to further drive a wedge between the two of you. I think you must face the fact that now is not the time to pursue your relationship. I would simply tell her that you care very much, but you can see that her interests and her energies lie elsewhere at this time. Then, let the ball lie in her court. If she picks it up, well and good. If not, at least you'll know where you stand.

sounds like she is a teenaged drama queen.find a sensible chick.