Cant keep my focus on more then one girl.

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I always wondered if there was a Website like this, I found it today by accident so I been reading a lot of posts, here is mine,

I work doing entertainment make of that what you will but it puts me in a position were I meet lots of girls as I deal with people every day I would class my self as a very good looking male without being big headed I get a lot of attention & am confident am not trying to brag but it will help you understand my situation.

I cant but help to want every really good looking girl I come into contact with, from the moment am with that one girl I treat them like there the only one do whatever it is they want to make them happy sexually & the other stuff that comes with it , am a bit of a lad lad & got the odd soft spot cuddles etc, but after about 4 - 8 weeks I get bored & lust for another it does not matter how perfect the girl is, its even worse when am outside as I can go from 1 girl to another within the space of half an hour trying to collect as many of them as I can I love the challenge the harder they are to get the more I want them, am talking your barbie dolls etc, as much as I fuss over that one girl thou after a hour or so the next girl will come along & I totally want her aswell & might even forget about the girl 3 - 4 hrs ago as some girls have passed, I have slept with a stupid amount of girls & am wondering how this is going to effect me when am older.

Its made me get very bored of normal sex am always looking for that next high that next challenge a girl better then the last if you can understand what I mean.

I had a few 3sums/4sums mmmf ffm etc & they seem to be really enjoyable but its finding people willing to be up for them I find my self watching porn at least once a day & wanking 2 - 3 times a day I cant help my self but that is a story for another post.

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  • Evralette
    14 years ago | pl

    Nympho yes... thats the correct word

    I know alot of guys that wish they were in your shoes.. but do you honestly enjoy it?
    or do you wish you could just settle down?

    I really dont see a question in this thread. and if there is I'm sorry for not answering it.
    But damn boy, what are you going to do if one day you slip up?

    I'd only seek psychiatric help if you think its a big problem.

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  • aj89997
    14 years ago | pl

    yea dude you might need a bit of help you sound like a nympho to me. i mean this in the nicest way

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  • Galaxy500
    14 years ago | pl

    I think you're addicted to sex. But yeah, I'd see therapy because you're probably breaking hearts left and right just to get laid.

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  • oneguytoanother
    11 years ago | pl

    I think you're addicted to women and porn. This isn't surprising considering your situation. Our world is over-sexualized and you're right in the middle of it. I think you should still talk to these women and go on dates with them. Do yourself a favour and end the date before things get physical. This won't be easy but it will separate the girls who you really like from those you just want to bang. Also, no more porn - it just makes you a slave to your hormones and you'll never be satisfied. Good luck man, it's a hard road, but you can do it.

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  • alishwag
    11 years ago | pl

    TL;DR

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  • Whitneyhouston
    12 years ago | pl

    Lol, sex addict my ass. You are just surrounded by beautiful women 24/7, and that's the "problem". Don't worry about it too much, you'll know when you've met "the one" but if you feel live met the one and still can't control this behavior, better hope she's down for 3somes or swinging, otherwise seek help.

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  • kingofthedust
    12 years ago | pl

    sex addict tell me how you do it

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  • vyvaz
    13 years ago | pl

    It is absolutely normal. Every psychologist will thell You the same. I had identical problem, just couldnt focus on one girl. But it is because there is just too much of them and our nature made us(the best males) to impregnate as much females as possible, so the best genes are being continued. The best solution and the one I found is living in a muslim country, where the girls are being covered and You dont have problem on focusing on one. And also You can have FOUR wives and live with all them. But You have to stop thinking about others, and that is only in Your head.

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  • missmeow
    13 years ago | pl

    I knew a guy that was like this. He loves the attention and thrill. It's become a lifestyle that you live, like a game. It's not normal. But I'm not sure it's bad either. As long as you are happy with how your life is. I don't feel sorry for the girls you break the hearts of because they're dumb enough to fall into your trap haha.

    Live how you want, not everyone needs to settle down

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  • youngfox
    13 years ago | pl

    No need for therapy. That's completely normal when you are good looking more in a narcissistic society which complains about this kind of things but promote beauty as a value.

    You just enjoy it man!
    If I was you I could not help my self either !!

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  • RockyRiot
    13 years ago | pl

    It sounds like you're begging for an STD dude.

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  • tim5ny
    13 years ago | pl

    You like a girl..and you want to marry/bang her. Your story is old and used up!

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  • ihopeualldie
    13 years ago | pl

    Maybe u have add....better to blame it on something medical

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  • asdf12345
    13 years ago | pl

    you're an idiot bud. you think too highly of yourself.

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  • leahquestions
    13 years ago | pl

    wear a condom and find a swingers club that'll satisfy your desires and when you get older then you'll be ready to settle down - just tell the women that you won't commit be up front. you may just want superficiality and not a real relationship, sad but maybe you'll find one day that a best friend and lover can't be beat..

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  • alexbsc
    14 years ago | pl

    good lad. keep it up.

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  • Battle
    14 years ago | pl

    I really don't know what to say about this one. Maybe you need to talk to a psychiatrist about this because this might end up putting you in a situation you can't get out of.

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    • Liquidmetals
      14 years ago | pl

      You care to explain a little deeper what you mean, Is it normal ? Are there faults with it, what kind of situation would you be talking about.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    14 years ago | pl

    Anyone care to have a stab at what the problem could be is it normal do all lads in the same position do it, Would you be the same etc?

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