Cant get off during sex

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When ever I have had sex I can't get off I have done it 3 times each time with a different person and no matter how good it felt I can't finish and it's really embarrassing the only thing i can think of was I had a condom on all 3 times (except while getting a bj) and was either drunk or on drugs but I have no problem getting off by my self while I'm messed up
Idk why but after awhile I can't even keep it up and just get tired it's really embarrassing and girls get frustrated but I'm only 18 and don't have ed or any problems by my self i don't get it :(

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Based on 43 votes (25 yes)
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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Watch alot of porn?

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  • buzzybimaybe
    7 years ago

    i.
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    .think you might ne bi?? i ber the thought of a nice big cock in yoir ass while you fuck her turns you on i bet yoy jack+off to this????

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  • jakhari
    7 years ago

    i understand I know a women who won't stop sucking a cock no matter how much it cums or pees in her mouth

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  • SiliconChip
    7 years ago

    no. usually this is because you are A) taking a medication like a beta blocker, or antidepressant or B) nervous
    Try relaxing and deciding you are NOT going to finish.

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  • Kookulainamus
    7 years ago

    Dude. It takes me 45 minutes to blow my load. Half the women out there think slow romantic fucks are the best kind. Just be really loving, and kiss her in a sensual way. Synchronize your breathing with hers. Touch her softly. Smell her sweet feminine sweat. You are already close to appreciating women to the max.

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    My wife gets mad if we have sex and I don't cum.

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  • NathanScot
    7 years ago

    Probably too much porn mate,don't fret just lay off it for a while and relax.

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  • bigfatdick4
    7 years ago

    Masturbate more often, it helps to get your senses in shape! Hell even masturnate during sex, girls find it to be a big turn on!

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  • NeilYounger
    7 years ago

    Dude what you are experiencing is normal for a young man. A big part of what you are feeling is fear. You are afraid to blow your load too soon. Try to get into your female sex partner more: when she starts getting off (she'll blow two or three loads in a row) then let your mind relax and go with her. You'll feel her getting all wet and slippery (even with the condom you're wearing) and then maybe reach behind her and grab her ass cheeks, or maybe suck a tit or turn your head to the side so she can run her tongue in your ear. This kind of shit will be a tremendous help in getting you off. With experience these things will become automatic. Relax dude. Learn to go with the flow. Her flow. You're normal.

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