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Im afraid to enjoy myself and let loose.
When i go to a concert, i have the urge to sing and get up and dance, but i cant. Im too afraid to show my emotions.
Too afraid what people think.
Whats wrong with me. ?
Screw what people think, most certainly at a freaking concert, if you need help opening up, take a few shots of your favorite drink before hand.
Nothing is wrong with you. I feel the same way a lot of the time. But try and put yourself out there a little bit at a time. Build up to the singing and dancing and all that.
Honestly, alcohol. You'll be free before you know it. And its not like its illegal. And if you don't like it later on you can always stop. Its totally up to you.
And quit worrying about what people think of you. Look how big the universe is. And how small the earth is in this whole universe. And even how small we are on earth. We are like specs. Why would you worry about these worthless specs judging you??
If you're at a concert, chances are you'll never see those people again and they're all at the concert for the same reason. To dance and sing and let all their pint up energy out. Metal shows are the only place where you can punch a random stranger in the face or go crowd surfing and not get arrested..it's awesome..so you should totally do it.
You think you will be judged, and are afraid of that So you have to ask what the worse judgement is "they" could make, and why you would care.
I thinks it's rather normal. Personally, I don't care what others think about me, but I know a lot of people who feel the same way as you do. As 'gbulldawg5' suggest, I would also suggest take a drink or two. You don't have to get drunk, just confident.