Can your spouse be your best friend too?

1. Best friend as in, true harmony within each other. He/she is your partner in crime as well in life. Ride or die.

2. Not best friend as in you don't have any other friends. You have other friends of course.

Do you think a person you trust enough to marry and have children with should also be considered your best friend too?

Edit: To those who thinks it's weird , please comment. I'm really conflicted.

That's weird. 3
Of course! 36
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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Thats actually how it's supposed to be.

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  • SwickDinging

    Why would you even consider marrying someone who isn't your best friend? Surely that's a recipe for disaster

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  • My wife is my best friend. We just click. I don't know why.

    If your spouse isn't your best friend, then I think there's a problem. Like maybe you married for the wrong reasons, like looks or money or something else superficial.

    Look, I didn't get married till I was 33. I went through the whole thing where I was with a bitch for her looks and it she just wanted me for my good paying ( for my age) job. I'm sure I don't have to tell you how it ended up.

    Then I had a friend who I could actually talk to, about real things like money, my hopes for the future, my plans, and my shortcomings. She did the same with me. Guess what happened? 13 years and no regrets. For us it will be lifelong.

    Yes, your spouse can and should be your best friend. If their not, hopefully you have a good lawyer.

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  • charli.m

    I think that would be the ideal...

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    • There's still time, mel. Good luck. :D

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      • charli.m

        Huh?

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  • Meowypowers

    Of course! Who the hell voted thats weird?

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  • megadriver

    Naturally. Your spouse, or significant other must be your best friend. Otherwise that relationship won't last long.

    My girlfriend is my best friend. We just fit together. I'm the quieter, more serious type and she's all happy, friendly, social and all that.
    We know everything about each other and have been through good times and bad times. She was a great help when I was in severe depression. I never burdened her with my problems, or even talked about my self hate, but just having her and her positivism near me helped immensely. I'm always there for her. Being able to share thoughts and talk about anything.

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  • RoseIsabella

    The ideal is to be married and your best friend.

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  • Mbira

    Think about your immediate family. Whether you were the only child or had many siblings, I'm positive you could say that not only do you love your family dearly, but that maybe some of them, or all of them, you would consider a close / tight / best friend. People you love are obviously more than just someone you love...

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  • IrishPotato

    Mine is.

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  • bigbudchonga

    GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY

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  • Nednerb43

    Yeah dude thats what makes it work . Just act on that part of the relationship everyday and dont fall too hard into the roles youve been cast. Your not just a mom/dad , husband/wife .

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