Can you be bi without having sexual feelings for men?

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im an eighteen year old girl and i would call myself bi sexual. i definately know im into girls as i have emotional and sexual feelings for them. but with men i have do have emotional feelings for them and do think they are hot while dressed.. but not at tall when they are undressed and have no sexaul feeling for them except when i see two guys making out is this normal?

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  • thetalentless
    10 years ago

    I've got the same kind of thing. (I'm a woman) Sexually I'm only attracted to woman. I've fallen in love with both genders before tough. But I just kinda dislike Penises. Right now I'm falling in love with a guy and I'll just give it a try I guess. o.o

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  • ladyday
    13 years ago

    I think sexual orientation is all about preference. Just like some people prefer chocolate or vanilla, some people prefer the opposite sex. It's not something you can control but it's not something that is written in your genes. Everyone is gay and everyone is straight. Sex is sex, it all feels good. Whatever you're attracted to is perfectly normal and there is no need to label it.

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  • stealinsugars
    13 years ago

    If you have no sexual attraction to men, you are a lesbian. If you engage in sex with both males and females, then you are bisexual. But truthfully, who cares about labels? Just be yourself and don't worry about it.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    I'm a lesbian and my girlfriend and I think guys can be totally attractive and we also have male friends...this doesn't make us bi...just normal.

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