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I'm a crazy sexual person, and me and my boyfriend have been having sex almost everyday for almost 2 years, I LOVE sex, and I always have, I do get pleasure out of it, but I have never been successful in having a full on orgasm. Is it normal for a girl to get a lot of pleasure out of all the excitement, but not be able to have a full blown orgasm?
Ok so I once was just like you! I LOVED sex, but I had never actually experienced an orgasm. Then I met my husband, who was my bf at the time. The things that helped me finally get an orgasm were this:
1) The fact that my feelings for him were SO strong it made me really really into it.
2) When I orgasmed we were doing missionary.
3)Slow sex is the BEST way to achieve a full blown orgasm, anyone experienced in getting orgasms will back this up pretty much. He was going slow but kind of rough. So his belly was rubbing against my clit and his penis was rubbing on my g-spot perfectly at the same time.
4) Rotate your hips along with his, work as a TEAM! When he was on top, thrusting inside of me (slow and rough)I was moving my hips with him and we were really in sync.
5) Dont chase the orgasm! The harder you try to have an orgasm (if you're new to them) the harder it is to find it. Just relax and enjoy the session for what its worth!
6) RELAX! I remember I used to find myself squeezing and holding my vaginal muscles a lot during sex because I'd be so into it. But the first time I orgasmed I actually relaxed my vaginal muscles and just took him that way. I contracted my muscles every once in a while, but its almost like I was just accepting it as he was giving it to me. I let my vagina contract when it wanted to.
-Conclusion: I had my first real orgasm, the kind I didnt even think women could achieve and it was freakin AMAZING. Words cant even describe how great it feels. I thought I loved sex before my first orgasm, but after that, sex took on a whole new meaning lol
It is a combination of some clitoral and some putting pressure just inside the vagina about two finger joints in and moving your finger as if beckoning someone closer to you a fuller bladder even very full will help this as it makes that area stick out and be hard /sensitive . Other bonus is after action letting out distended bladder will feel extremely good and bladder will super empty . Plus is getting these feeling when full will make skipping the ladies on the way to see your man so you are already full you will be already building up syching yourself for the fun to be so a sort of extended for play some nice new panties for man to discover and appreciate may add to the unwrapping fun as well . Not saying to wet or make a mess just saying to have fun enjoy yourself
I am sorry to hear that. You could try masturbating, toys, anal, role playing games, etc. Change it up. Obviously what you are currently doing isn't achieving that state. And how old are you? As you age, your libido will too, usually for the better.
Just keep in mind that quality over quantity means everything in orgasm land.
And pick up the book "Guide to Getting it on". every couple who have this book.