Normal. You only think about these other girls because they are close to you. You like being as close to your closest of friends as you possibly can be (if that makes sense). And by the sounds of it, you will remain faithful to your girlfriend whom you seem to adore. So it is ok.
But maybe when you start thinking of these girls, think of your girlfriend. Think how much you love her and if it is true love, the other girls should go away. :) best of luck, live a long and happy life with the one you love! (corny I know, but true) xx
Thank you, everyone.
cheesey_jelly, that was especially helpful. And mieoux: I agree. I just don't think I should have any close female friends, and even then, I will try my best to think of them as my "sisters".
Thank you, it's really nice to feel loved and cared about, even by total strangers.
UPDATE: I am still working on this problem, but it is hard. I stopped talking to her, and I just completely seperated myself from the issue and I feel fantastic. Sometimes I do still think about this girl, but it is NOWHERE close to how much it used to be. I think that sometimes, we have to be ass holes, to take care of ourselves.
Can't have a close female friend without wanting them.
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Normal. You only think about these other girls because they are close to you. You like being as close to your closest of friends as you possibly can be (if that makes sense). And by the sounds of it, you will remain faithful to your girlfriend whom you seem to adore. So it is ok.
But maybe when you start thinking of these girls, think of your girlfriend. Think how much you love her and if it is true love, the other girls should go away. :) best of luck, live a long and happy life with the one you love! (corny I know, but true) xx
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Thank you, everyone.
cheesey_jelly, that was especially helpful. And mieoux: I agree. I just don't think I should have any close female friends, and even then, I will try my best to think of them as my "sisters".
Thank you, it's really nice to feel loved and cared about, even by total strangers.
UPDATE: I am still working on this problem, but it is hard. I stopped talking to her, and I just completely seperated myself from the issue and I feel fantastic. Sometimes I do still think about this girl, but it is NOWHERE close to how much it used to be. I think that sometimes, we have to be ass holes, to take care of ourselves.