The morning-wood is a very positive sign, It sounds like you need to figure out a way to help him cool his jets and just chill a little. I don't know - maybe you could give each other slow massages with the specific understanding that it won't end with sex? Instead, it's just a gentle exploration of each other's bodies so he's more comfortable with you.
Often, if you take sex off the table, things just sort of naturally happen because there's no pressure for them to happen.
Sounds like he just needs to calm down, really accept that you like him, that you're not going anywhere, and he doesn't need to prove anything to you.
Considering his history, his eagerness is completely understandable, but it's really not helping him or you.
Yeah I do like him and I'm not a bitch to just walk away from him like that and yeah I think a big bit of it could be nerves maybe because I'm a lot younger he is out of practice etc he feels under pressure to perform and with his operation he has had maybe there is a mental block
Can't get it up lol
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Jeeez!
You must be really something, girl!
The morning-wood is a very positive sign, It sounds like you need to figure out a way to help him cool his jets and just chill a little. I don't know - maybe you could give each other slow massages with the specific understanding that it won't end with sex? Instead, it's just a gentle exploration of each other's bodies so he's more comfortable with you.
Often, if you take sex off the table, things just sort of naturally happen because there's no pressure for them to happen.
Sounds like he just needs to calm down, really accept that you like him, that you're not going anywhere, and he doesn't need to prove anything to you.
Considering his history, his eagerness is completely understandable, but it's really not helping him or you.
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Yeah I do like him and I'm not a bitch to just walk away from him like that and yeah I think a big bit of it could be nerves maybe because I'm a lot younger he is out of practice etc he feels under pressure to perform and with his operation he has had maybe there is a mental block