Yes he does still get hard on in the morning and his ex wife that he was with for 25 years he didn't sleep with her for the last 11 years as she didn't want to go near him and they fell out of love so he said he is out of practice and the he did tell me he was nervous sleeping with me he was shaking and he did get worked up that he can't maintain a hard on and now when we're together we try and have sex when he takes viagra he can sleep with me but it's just maintaining it some times he can then other times he can't but he is very nervous when he is around me he is shaking and sweating
The morning-wood is a very positive sign, It sounds like you need to figure out a way to help him cool his jets and just chill a little. I don't know - maybe you could give each other slow massages with the specific understanding that it won't end with sex? Instead, it's just a gentle exploration of each other's bodies so he's more comfortable with you.
Often, if you take sex off the table, things just sort of naturally happen because there's no pressure for them to happen.
Sounds like he just needs to calm down, really accept that you like him, that you're not going anywhere, and he doesn't need to prove anything to you.
Considering his history, his eagerness is completely understandable, but it's really not helping him or you.
Yeah I do like him and I'm not a bitch to just walk away from him like that and yeah I think a big bit of it could be nerves maybe because I'm a lot younger he is out of practice etc he feels under pressure to perform and with his operation he has had maybe there is a mental block
Can't get it up lol
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Yes he does still get hard on in the morning and his ex wife that he was with for 25 years he didn't sleep with her for the last 11 years as she didn't want to go near him and they fell out of love so he said he is out of practice and the he did tell me he was nervous sleeping with me he was shaking and he did get worked up that he can't maintain a hard on and now when we're together we try and have sex when he takes viagra he can sleep with me but it's just maintaining it some times he can then other times he can't but he is very nervous when he is around me he is shaking and sweating
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Jeeez!
You must be really something, girl!
The morning-wood is a very positive sign, It sounds like you need to figure out a way to help him cool his jets and just chill a little. I don't know - maybe you could give each other slow massages with the specific understanding that it won't end with sex? Instead, it's just a gentle exploration of each other's bodies so he's more comfortable with you.
Often, if you take sex off the table, things just sort of naturally happen because there's no pressure for them to happen.
Sounds like he just needs to calm down, really accept that you like him, that you're not going anywhere, and he doesn't need to prove anything to you.
Considering his history, his eagerness is completely understandable, but it's really not helping him or you.
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Yeah I do like him and I'm not a bitch to just walk away from him like that and yeah I think a big bit of it could be nerves maybe because I'm a lot younger he is out of practice etc he feels under pressure to perform and with his operation he has had maybe there is a mental block