I think it was a little imprudent of her to continue a friendship with a man that was that emotionally intimate if she has a husband and a baby.
I mean, we all make opposite-sex friends but if you don't meet through work or an interest group and it's just back-and-forth, one-to-one chat, then it's bound to be exclusive and intense by its very nature. I'd say it were almost inevitable.
What you feel is absolutely natural and I am really sorry. It could only safely end this way, and unless you have told her, she probably has no idea of the impact this has had on you.
It would be unwise of you to pursue this friendship given the circumstances and your feelings - all you can do now is grieve. It was wrong of her to put you in a situation where it could only have ended that way for you, but the only way she can put things right now is to stop allowing you to hope.
I reiterate - I am just so sorry. This is a really horrible situation for you to be in. I don't know if you could have seen it coming and we're all different - but all I can see is that you've got the rawest deal here, and that the best thing you can do for yourself is to ride out the grief and take time to heal.
... then you need to remove those photos, and videos of her. If you simply cannot stand the idea of deleting those photos, and videos then you can transfer that media to a micro SD card, and or transfer that stuff to your computer, then transfer it to a flash drive which you would keep separately, and out of sight.
It sucks, doesn't it? 😔. I've got some of the girl I wanted but couldn't have, too. It's her birthday today. I can't decide whether to email her and wish her a happy birthday. I know the advice I'd give to myself, if I were you.
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I think it was a little imprudent of her to continue a friendship with a man that was that emotionally intimate if she has a husband and a baby.
I mean, we all make opposite-sex friends but if you don't meet through work or an interest group and it's just back-and-forth, one-to-one chat, then it's bound to be exclusive and intense by its very nature. I'd say it were almost inevitable.
What you feel is absolutely natural and I am really sorry. It could only safely end this way, and unless you have told her, she probably has no idea of the impact this has had on you.
It would be unwise of you to pursue this friendship given the circumstances and your feelings - all you can do now is grieve. It was wrong of her to put you in a situation where it could only have ended that way for you, but the only way she can put things right now is to stop allowing you to hope.
I reiterate - I am just so sorry. This is a really horrible situation for you to be in. I don't know if you could have seen it coming and we're all different - but all I can see is that you've got the rawest deal here, and that the best thing you can do for yourself is to ride out the grief and take time to heal.
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Thank you.that's right. I should forget her. But her photos and videos are still in my phone :(
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... then you need to remove those photos, and videos of her. If you simply cannot stand the idea of deleting those photos, and videos then you can transfer that media to a micro SD card, and or transfer that stuff to your computer, then transfer it to a flash drive which you would keep separately, and out of sight.
It sucks, doesn't it? 😔. I've got some of the girl I wanted but couldn't have, too. It's her birthday today. I can't decide whether to email her and wish her a happy birthday. I know the advice I'd give to myself, if I were you.